I often see comments from men on social media praising man sluts.
"This man is a lucky guy". "He won a lottery". " he is in Heaven".
This is such a turn off to me. I lose my respect for men who degrade themselves like this. If you think having sex with random women is equal to winning a lottery then you are inferior to women.
Weel there are factors to play, like there arw more conservative types and more liveral ones, like as it is no shame to like many girls through your life there isn’t shame to wanting to have swxual activity with many girls and sometimes beinga sex slave is a fetish of some man and also women but like there can be some cases like the man has low self esteem or the man is a carefree and naturalist personand auch or he may just be a simp!!;as for those males who comment like that they would be simps as well!!
A woman can walk towards nearly any guy and ask for sex, and she'll find it quickly, if guys will believe she's actually serious. She can walk into a bar or a club, spread her legs and there'll be a dick between it within minutes, if she'll make it crystal clear that she consents and it's not a joke. It's a woman who decides who has sex. She doesn't necessarily even has to be pretty to do it.
A man can't do that. A man must *earn* sex, via some kind of way: either crazy good looks, or good charisma, or some social status, or by simply being rich, or being super funny, or something else or a combination of multiple factors. Whatever that is, at the end of the day it requires some sorts of effort for a man to get laid. Woman doesn't have to do shit to get laid.
In short: women fuck who they want, men fuck who they can.
Thus men cannot be sluts. Men can only be slut makers. And if a guy has a lot of women, he's doing something right.
Men can be sluts. If you sleep with several people, you are a slut 😭 that's why I muuuuch prefer inexperienced guys
Here's the thing - some women, like Marish, want to marry a man who has "some" sexual experience but not "too much", and that number will differ with the woman. That experience should preferably stemmed from a previous relationship, not random sex. However, I've also spoken with women who believe if the man isn't a virgin as she is, she'd be "settling" and dishonoring herself.
The "man-slut" in the eyes of most women, is the guy who is always on the hunt for sex and actively trying to find it, as you say, wherever he can get it. He's the guy who consistently puts himself into situations where it's more likely to find women who also want random sex because they too are sluts.
It seems like 99% of women want men who equate monogamy with love, or at least consider it to be a condition FOR love. I seriously doubt the percentage of men who consider monogamy as a condition of love is anywhere near that. That doesn't mean they won't "agree" to BE monogamous in a marriage or relationship, but the mere act of agreeing to it hasn't changed male behaviors much throughout history.
> He should have rejected those sluts.
Why a man has to reject a reward for his work? To stroke your (woman's) ego?
Keep in mind that it's merely your own definition of dignity, and is also defined subjectively by the NUMBER of times he "undignifies himself".
That's an interesting concept of "dignity". "Dignity", according to a dictionary, is "the state or quality of being worthy of honor or respect." In your own question, you said that other men consider such person "this man is a lucky guy", "he won a lottery", "he is in Heaven". Sounds like respect from other men to my ears.
Using your logic, should a man also reject monetary reward for his job as well? Or a trophy for winning some sorts of a tournament? That's a worthless statuette, after all.
The entitlement & lack of empathy (not to be confused with sympathy) of modern women is incredible. They genuinely do not recognize the work and effort, trials and errors a man must invest to have lots of sex with different women.
Privilege is invisible to those that have it; Marish doesn't have to put any work or effort to get sex from men since she's a woman, thus she doesn't feel any empathy towards men, as she erroneously thinks men and women are the same and/or are equals, thus judging men on a female metric. We are not. We must bust our asses to get what we want (sex), you don't.
"Marish doesn't have to put any work or effort to get sex from men since she's a woman, thus she doesn't feel any empathy towards men, as she erroneously thinks men and women are the same and/or are equals"
Don't forget women are not equal either. Some women are ugly. Some women are not ugly lol
Just because it is your opinion, it doesn't mean it can't be wrong. And it is most definitely wrong. I can have an opinion that the sky is orange, and I'd be wrong.
> Don't forget women are not equal either. Some women are ugly. Some women are not ugly lol
You'd be surprised, but there were literally experiments being made by creating 2 different profiles on dating apps: one was a fat unattractive woman, and another was a handsome male model.
Fat chick received more attention and messages than a handsome male model. So even a fat ugly chick has more pull than a handsome man.
I didn't say my opinion is right for everyone. It is right for me.
I mentioned my opinion. I never said it's a fact.
You didn't properly reply to this comment of mine
"Don't forget women are not equal either. Some women are ugly. Some women are not ugly lol"
Read it again.
As for that experiment. No, I'm not surprised.
That trait of men was what I mentioned as a turn off. So no, it was not surprising. I do know that desperation exists. That is what I critisized.
Ever get the feeling that if Groucho Marx were alive and dating today he would say:
"If ever I checked off all the boxes some of these women have for the man they want to be with or date, I'd shoot myself" LOL
@loveslongnails what is weird about wanting to date a man who rejects sluts?
Where did I say it was weird? I made a joke about Groucho Marx, and I don't believe you're familiar enough with his comedy to understand the reference.
I think it's a bit weird when I hear of men who are not virgins themselves want to marry ONLY virgins. I think it's a bit weird that you are choosing to remain a virgin but want to marry a man who is not because you want him to have "some" experience with a woman. But so what, that's just MY opinion of what's weird. It doesn't matter to me if anyone else agrees with it or not.
I don't get what you're getting at by saying that some women are ugly and some are not. That it's unfair? Life's unfair 🤷♂️
As for you disliking men that sleep around with a lot of women and getting praise from other men -- understandable, since you're a woman, and it's your opinion, fair enough.
I explained as to why such phenomenon exists, and *then* you started arguing regarding dignity and whatnot, indirectly saying that a man shouldn't reap the benefits of his work and apparently refuse to recognize that the ability to sleep with lots of women for men *is* hard work, while women don't have to do anything but spread their legs to get sex.
I don't have an issue that you dislike men that sleep around, that's your opinion and I respect it; however, your further reasoning and statements is what I have an issue with and telling you that this is where your opinion is wrong.
I mean not all have the privilege of dating hot men just because they have the "privilege" to get fucked without making efforts unlike men.
My reasoning why I think male promiscuity shouldn't be glorified is because men diminish their worth when thinking fucking the holes of random women especially sluts is a reward.
I understand what you're saying, and I'm telling you as to why it is glorified and why men do not diminish anything, but quite otherwise: because it requires work.
It requires building up charisma & courage to approach a woman and not freak her out; it requires hitting the gym and building a body to look presentable; it requires empathy and ability to think quickly what each and every particular woman likes/dislikes to tell her the right thing; it requires having money, which already includes lots of positive qualities. Even getting a slut requires some sorts of skill and effort. It is hard work, something women do not require at all to get sex, hence women cannot comprehend it.
Therefore, if it requires so much effort to have sex with many women, by default a man cannot diminish his value whatsoever; moreover, he only builds it up and can prove it. As an analogy, all these bodies he's collecting are akin to trophies, like a sportsman is collecting trophies and medals. And that's why other men respect him. Do you get it now and why it will never change?
Women sleep with who they want. Men sleep with who they can.
@metall
That is a well thought out and stated answer. Well done! Men make sluts.
@marish01
Being devoutly religious now, I can no longer glorify male promiscuity.
However, I have had sex with over 300 women. In fact I do not know the exact number. One day I tried to remember every sexual exploit I’d had. The best I could number was 300+.
All that said I will say 2 things.
1. What you’re saying sounds like some kind of feminist Jedi mind trick. It sounds like it’s coming from a place that you don’t like that women are shamed for being sluts and men are glorified for conquering in the sexual arena.
2. I’ve seldom heard a woman say what you have. Typically they do say this manner of thing when someone like me banged all the other girls in the office except you. You then feel inadequate and invalidated because you were the one I did not sleep with and are jealous. Many other women, my wife included have praised my body count, as they know what @metallstrum said is quite right. Most guys couldn’t get laid in a dime whorehouse, yet it’s rather remarkable I could do it at will. What @metallstrum also said is largely true of most men. They must carry enormous value to even be considered worthy of vaginal access. However this did not apply to me. I was and I repeat the word was a good looking young man, and I had the gifts of gab and charm. That’s all it took. That and not being programmed by a feminist society so I did and do understand women and how they think on the whole.
In fact based on science, and the total population of men that ever lived on the earth, far, far less men than women ever passed their DNA on. This means men simply don’t get laid much. Not most of them anyway.
As for me, I’m an old man whore now. I hung my zipper in the hall of fame and retired. If I set aside religion and do not view fornication as a sin, I see my body count as nothing more than conquest. I conquered and obtained at will and with ease whereas most men would need to sell a kidney to even get a fraction of the ass I pulled.
@marish 01
Therefore I see having a body count higher than Auschwitz as a sign of dominance. Most men do too. A good majority of women do also. Some women will deny it, some are genuine, many are not. I see no degradation in taking what I wanted when I wanted it.
However women who are sluts are the ones who are degraded. Women have far less testosterone and desire sex far less than men. Therefore them being a dirty little whore is a mark of a lack of self control and my being one is a mark of dominance.
@Exterminatore
I also would like to add, something that I didn't mention previously: women are attracted to men that have enormous body count without realizing it (or not wanting to admit it), since these men posses most, if not all arousing qualities that women want:
* They're self-confident & courageous when approaching and dealing with women (women love traits in men); every time a man gets laid with a new woman, he feels a sense of achievement, hence confidence boost. I'm yet to see a sportsman who is unsure of himself if he has the entire room full of trophies.
* They likely have been rejected previously hundreds of times, therefore they learned to quickly figure out what each and every individual woman wants to hear (this is something akin to battle scars, and women are attracted to that), and women love with their ears, hence why most ads are targeted towards women and even male-oriented products, such as Gillette, will shit on men if it is required to sell to women.
* Women love flaunting status of their men to other women; like, what are typical conversations of 2 women? "Oooooh, my man took me to such and such place", which from womanese into English translates as "my man is rich enough to take me to such luxurious place; can your man do the same, bitch?". And since men that get laid a lot earn admiration from other men, as we see it as an achievement, thus this man very likely has good networking, and it is definitely something a woman can flex about her man to other women.
And lots of other examples I'm too lazy to describe. So when a woman bashes men for sleeping around, but most definitely gets attracted to men that can get laid a lot (if she is unaware of his body count), it is kinda amusing and ironic in my eyes.
@metall
You are exactly right in all you just said. Dead on balls accurate.
@Exterminatore lol if you knewhow much disgust I feel for female promiscuity you would think I'm a misogynist lol
"I’ve seldom heard a woman say what you have. Typically they do say this manner of thing when someone like me banged all the other girls in the office except you. You then feel inadequate and invalidated because you were the one I did not sleep with and are jealous."
Nope. I am abstinent. The idea of premarital sex always turned me off. Plus I feel disgust for a man who sleeps around. I couldn't touch that used up body.
@marish01
Used up? Why yes, I used my body for my continued and uninterrupted pleasure, which is the exact nature of my sin, as I did not use it for God’s glory.
But, used up in the sense you mean it. No dear. I used bodies not had mine opened up. Men don’t have a vagina hole to shoot big loads of man juice into. I did the using, not got used.
What you are doing is feminist propaganda trying to reverse roles and slut shame men. You want to apply what only applies to women to men. Wishful thinking.
I also think you’re not truthful. The sisterhood already approved me as a stallion. That’s what you all do. Tell the others who has met the criteria to be bedded and not. This is why little whores go after married men. At least one member of the sisterhood approved of them. Don’t try telling me you want a man who has no balls and no ability to captivate the attention of women. No women but only the most desperate will settle for such a man. So then you’re telling me you are desperate and no men want you. You are telling me you don’t have the goods to draw the most desirable of men. Because all the ones who are worth having passed you by and now you must settle, as naturally most people do. Every person on earth who is coupled…. their partner was the best they could do. I see an unfulfilling life ahead for you in love and sex with boring and predictable men who will submit to you in the hopes of even getting a piece. Good luck with that.
So, naturally you feel contempt for such men. You want control and they don’t have to and will not give it to you as they have other options and can write their own check in this arena.
You have told me all I need to understand about you. You inwardly desire to enslave a man to your will and want control over him, hence you dislike the one who need not play the game on your terms but his.
@Exterminatore I am anti femimist. I abhore female promiscuity more than male promiscuity.
I do think women are the used ones men are the users because like you explained he is the penetrator even when she makes the movements lol
But when a man shares the most intimate thing with absolutely random trashy women and thinks they are rewards then he lowers his worth.
It is unattractive when a guy sleeps with a ton of women, don’t really see why that kind of behavior should be glorified for either men or women. Personally I think it’s fine if someone had a few partners, especially if you’re older, but once you start getting to ten, twenty plus it is a turnoff
You’re not wrong but from a guy’s perspective the dude’s in heaven
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Men can't be sluts they can only be slut makers. This just validates thar whats important to women isn't what's important to men. It takes a lot of work for a man to be able to have sex with a lot of women and that's what we are being celebrated for.
Men want casual relationships, women want relationships.
In general, men have to do a LOT to hookup and women just have to be available.
Really, how many men have you asked out on dates?
So obviously you are wrong.
You don't understand much about male/female sexuality since you are celibate, dear.
It will be more complete. You always sound like a female incel, which makes men far less interested than they would otherwise be. You can be the most attractive woman, but if you aren't sexually available, very few men will want you. Not saying you should spread your legs for every guy, of course not, but find one you like and let him have a chance to woo you.
You are in your 30's... better lock a man down soon before your sexual value is diminished.
For a woman? Youth and beauty.
It implies fertility and hopefully a fit, healthy body.
You're not wrong
keep things in context, historically men weren't the ones at the "intersections" sleeping with all the men possible.
I dislike them. They're usually hypocrites. They're the same men who judge a woman for having a very active sexual life. They same ones who call women bi**h or s**t when they do the same as them.
It's an huge turn off for me.
Men glorify it for two reasons:
1. We all have wished we could do that.
2. It is very difficult.
Neither of these is true for female sluts.
Unfortunately I don't know what this means I have not learned that big word yet
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"If you get with a lot of women, then you're so unattractive that you'll never get with women!"
Got it. A sentiment Yogi Berra would be proud of!
Why do the women have to be random? If they are girls we know and like then why assume they are strangers
I love that this site is completely dead. lol
Men and women do what makes them happy. There is nothing glorious about it.
They'll say they hate it. But she secretly LOVES it!😆😆😆
I never support such men, or women who support them.
I agree with you. It shows a lack of discipline
nah they’re good. just not for me personally.
it does make one a bit sad about live though. i also experience this when a woman wants something more casual. but it’s up to her
*love
Who glorifies promiscuity though?
Feminists.
@DextroShade they glorify FEMALE promiscuity.
True, my bad.
Male sluts? I think there are quite a few
men do that a lot
I like them.
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