Search Results: no longer in love

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I opened my account July 2019, and was often active on the site until the notification system broke down, and even after repeated efforts from me sending them information about the issues I have been having for an entire year now, they were unable to fix them.

Then the edit feature broke, so I, as an Editor, no longer had the 48-hr grace period to edit my MyTakes. I earned that, by writing dozens of MyTakes, which I put a significant amount of work into, to create high-quality content, and discuss some challenging topics with fellow users here.

Then they asked me to be a Moderator beginning of Dec. 2022, a time when I am not actively on the site much. I received a threatening PM saying that I would be cut if I didn't get actively removing comments, etc. Which I then did, but with the f'ed up, opaque, stupid programming and scoring system, a few weeks later, I was cut without any information. It's got so many holes and inconsistencies, it also needs an overhaul.

I notice bugs on the site all the time, which are never fixed.

So, here's a post - some content for you - fix the damn tech.

Even with no actual experience I still believe I fall under this category, I wonder if I need to manifest the law of attraction or something even though I do think that’s bs.

You know when you have a gut feeling? I’ve been on and off the dating apps for years, it’s come to the point where I’m not as interested & I swipe on matches/reply to msgs every few days. Dating apps are the only way I’ve tried dating as I dont have a social life but dating apps have been successful for quite a few people I know. I’ve never had a real relationship, I saw someone for a few months maybe 5 years ago & something told me after I saw him that’d I’d be single for a long time. With him it felt like settling & I refuse to ever be with someone that made me feel like that again.

I had to use dating apps bc I’m not very friendly & I don’t get approached in person. I’m told I’m cute/attractive & I will say I have a very low sex drive (haven’t masturbated or had sex in 5 years). I don’t think this is a huge deal considering this isn’t something that will be an issue that early on, a guy can’t just look at my profile/see me in person & know that right off the bat.

I get matches (never been the issue) but it’s always: ghosting, fizzling out, lack of interest (can go both ways), feelings not reciprocated, just not a good match & some guys are just crazy. I just always have a gnawing feeling like guys aren’t attracted to me, I’d get told once in a while that some guy looked at me/found me cute but they never do anything about it. And I don’t either hence why I’m posting this

TLDR: based off the description, is this something that’s unlucky in love?