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A friend and I were having a discussion. I don’t block people unless they’re harassing or annoying me. If I do and it’s that drastic I will block across the board but usually I only block on the platform the person kept contacting me on (usually iPhone). She always blocks across the board.

I’ll use my most recent ex as an example. He blocked me on facebook but not instagram as I was still getting updates from him until I unfollowed him (we don’t follow each other though). I don’t know if he has me blocked on the phone as I haven’t tried calling or texting him lately.

I’m not trying to be a troll nor am I stalking my ex (I just used him as an example and stating what I observed from him). Obviously no answer is right or wrong. I’m genuinely curious what other people’s thoughts are.

I was very close to this girl I met at work for 8 years. I was very open with her, she met my family, even became part of my family. The thing is, she was over the top secretive about everything. Didn't want me to know her age, about her family, her lovers, where she lived, etc. If I casually, politely brought it up, it upset her. I put up with this because I thought if I'm open and vulnerable with her, eventually she'd come around and be the same with me. It never happened. I got frustrated and politely distanced myself. Then I felt kind of bad because she was actually a good friend inspite of everything. But I couldn't take the one-sided thing. So I tried reaching out to her and reconnecting, and she just wasn't interested. Eventually, I just let her be. She even removed me from her Facebook. Then months later she hangs out with my brother that she knows I've had problems with. She would actually sit and talk to me about how awful my brother is. Isn't that the most garbage, 2-faced person ever?