Is the bar that low that I folded after he kept reaching out to hold my hand & leading me as I walked or is it because I haven't detached?

[Anonymous]

I went to his new setup, and he was so excited to show me
He said i was the first one to see & i can come back anytime.
His mom was there too and was happy to see me.
He's my ex by the way and I feel like a rebound.
He told me that the girl he had feelings for doesn't want to be with him. He said not to expect making out when we're together because he's trying to be a better person, and casual isn't the same anymore because of the other girl.
But he said all of this after I made him come 3x

[Anonymous]

I’d say the bar is low because you’re allowing your ex to breadcrumb and use you. I mean what kind of an asshole doesn’t want to make out with you because he’s “trying to be a better person” but you can make him come multiple times? He’s basically saying you’re only useful for getting him off but not real, emotional intimacy and that sucks. You’d never tell someone you love to stay with a person like that, you’d call your friends foolish if they were in your shoes, so why not show yourself the same self love?

[spartan55]

You're both pathetic.