Why did he keep touching me and moving his hand around after I moved it a few times (around my underwear) am I overthinking?

[Anonymous]

If I moved his hand he’d try touching again in a different place

[strawberrybaby3]

When you moved his hand, did you move it off of you or as if you wanted to be touched somewhere else? Please explain a little bit better. If you moved his hand off of you and he kept touching you, stay away from him. This is a person who can’t take no for an answer and could end up harming you.

[Asker]

Girl I’m still processing it. I’m still like gaslighting myself. But basically yeah I moved it a couple times to other areas away.

[Anonymous]

If he is touching you and you don't want him to and you already moved his hand and he is still trying to touch you, you need to report his ass. Nobody should be touching you ever if you aren't ok

[Asker]

I’m still processing it. But I felt it wasn’t right. I told him I was in my period and he still slipped his hand under my leggings and underwear even after I moved it. Then touched my vagina area over my leggings. So when I didn’t let him go under my pants he went over my leggings.

[236color]

I agree, call the police, this is sexual assault. Do not be alone with this guy. Tell him in plain English, "Do not touch me." This is NOT okay, it is NOT a "grey area" There is no way to look at this as maybe okay.

[Asker]

@236color don’t you think this is overkill tho? He didn’t assault me like with his penis or anything.

[236color]

He put his hands under your clothing without your permission? NO, it is not overkill. You have the right who touches you, and when they do it! Take ownership of your own body! I guess there have been some traumatic events in your history. Please get some therapy. More traumatic stuff is in your future if you don't learn to stand up for yourself.

[Asker]

@236color I told my therapist about it. I kept this in for so long and felt like shit and couldn’t understand why. It wore on me so much to a point I emotionally broke down one day. I still see him around and he’s like almost always by himself and no girlfriend that I know of

[riverrat3]

He did not want to give up or hear no

[In_Trance]

who is he?

[Anonymous]

He's horny?