Why did he put my hand on his crotch while we were making out?

[Anonymous]

I was having a pretty heated makeout session with the guy I'm seeing. It was my first time making out with anyone.

He really liked touching me- like my lower thigh, butt, chest, etc.

I didn't really know what to do with my hands so I kind of wrapped them around his neck.

At one point he took my hand and gently placed it on his crotch area.

He knows I won't have sex with him anytime soon, because I made that clear. I know he's genuine and isn't using me for anything sexual, but I can tell he definitely would be happy to have sex with me lol.

Do guys do this kind of thing to show the girl how much they are turned on or how
Much they want her?

Any other reason why a guy would put my Hand there?

He wanted me to put my hand there again and he asked but I didn't and he didn't force me or anything. He never makes me do anything I don't want.

[chocolatedragon]

He wanted you to feel the love that he has for you down there. The emotion of being with you rushed through his veins and manifested in his penis. He couldn't allow those emotions to subside without you feeling their magnitude.

But seriously tho lol, he was probably hoping that by touching his crotch, you would feel his and be curiously turned on to the point where you have sex. It did not work but at least he can sleep that day knowing you touched his crotch. That might be a certain accomplishment in his eyes lol.

[kheserthorpe]

So you could:
A) feel how aroused he was.
b) perhaps rub him slightly which would feel good
C) if you were up for it give him a hj.

It's possible he's also sensing you're unsure what you can/should do so from that perspective he's probably doing the right thing in at least telling you what he'd like.

[Dezzz99]

That happened to me my first time really making out with a guy. I didn't know where to place my hands & he placed it on his crotch for me. Just like he was touching you everywhere, he wanted you to do the same thing to him. When you're attracted to someone you want to touch them & you want them to touch you. Don't feel weird cause it's completely normal. You'll get to a point when you want to please him soo you'll feel more comfortable doing it.

[Asker]

Was the guy you were making out with expecting something sexual from you? I'm really inexperienced and I don't want to give him the wrong idea

[Dezzz99]

He knew I was a virgin & wasn't ready soo he respected my decision. If he knows your boundaries from the beginning & actually likes you he's gonna respect that. There's nothing wrong with touching soo don't be afraid unless it really makes you uncomfortable. If it doesn't, then relax & have fun.

[Asker]

Ok sounds like a similar situation to mine. He knows I'm a virgin and seems to like me a lot also. I should be fine then, I'll just take it as a compliment that he's attracted to me.

[abundantlyrich]

The way to sway a man firstly is through to his dick. And to his heart. So congrats. You aroused him and made him hard.

[MadeInAmerica]

If he knew it was your first big time make out session he might have been trying to help you (and of course himself) of what do when he is really aroused. Most likely he was hoping you at least touch and rub his dick through his pants with the ultimate goal of getting a hand job.

[Anonymous]

Probably shouldn't be making out, if you don't plan on putting out... just sayin'

[Asker]

Really? Do you think that would be teasing him kind of? It was his idea to make out though lol, and he knows I won't put out for a very long time

[Opinion Owner]

He thinks you'll give in... and yes, you're a tease. I wouldn't kiss you like that, if I didn't think I was getting some

[Asker]

I really don't mean to be a tease. He's the first guy I've ever kissed even. I don't want to go too far with him too soon and I told him that..

He initiates all this touchy feely stuff lol, I never do anything first. I'm still getting used to him wanting to touch me all the time

[Asker]

I don't want him to think I'll give in... What can I do to get the idea across?

[Opinion Owner]

If you're not planning on putting out, tell him no to making out

[Asker]

Okay, I'll definitely do that. I don't want to tease him and give him the wrong idea

[Opinion Owner]

Question is, can you handle not making out... and, I bet you can't. A million bucks says you crack within two weeks

[Asker]

Crack as in give him sex? I honestly won't. I would be happy to bet that million.

I've gone 22 years with incredible self control. I can definitely wait a little longer until I'm certain that I'm ready.

[Opinion Owner]

No I meant making out. Lets face it, making out is fun... and once you do it, you can't stop... it's addicting. Just like sex is

[Asker]

Making out is fun, that I can't deny lol.

[Opinion Owner]

That's why I will be you a million bucks you can't go two weeks without it... then see what he does

[Opinion Owner]

By the way, I don't have a million bucks, so, I'd have to be in debt to you, if you actually do go two weeks without it

[Bhayes]

Don't listen to this loser. Only do what you're comfortable with. Don't be coerced into unwanted sexual activity

[Anonymous]

He wanted you to touch him there, like a hj or something. OR he just wanted you to feel his boner

[Annymous8]

It was for his own pleasure.