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I work in a small office and we all get on really well. The guy in question is one of those “nice guys” who has a joke with everyone and is kind/lovely to everyone so it would be difficult to know whether he was into me.

Also, I’m too shy to ask him at present so I just want to know what you all think.

I’m a 30 year old woman and he is 27. We have a lot of banter, and although he jokes around with all women in the team, he does things with me that he doesn’t with them. For example, he will do silly things to get my attention such as grabbing my hair clip, poking me, touching my keyboard while I’m using it. He also makes silly jokes around me, such as “oh you’re still alive then” after I went home sick. He also “picks” on me in a jokey way and says he does it because I give him a reaction.

He looks at me a lot and we do have a lot of eye contact. I’ve been out drinking when he has, and apparently he’s very “huggy” with me but wouldn’t hug/touch me at work.

When it was my birthday, he arranged the cards and gifts for me at work. When I got a lift into work with another male, he seemed kind of jealous. I asked him to help me with something and he said “why don’t you go and ask (guy who gave me a lift to work)”.

I have an older sister (15 years my senior) who only hits me up when she wants money…. literally! Or simply when she wants something from me. It hasn’t always been this way, but for the past year or so I’m always the one initiating contact and most of the time she never answers or returns my calls/texts. I get ignored, but as soon as one of her bills are due or she claims she’s in need she will quickly pick up the phone and won’t hesitate to ask (constantly by the way). She didn’t even call on my birthday to wish me a happy birthday and that was like the icing on the cake for me. In a situation like this I won’t lie it hurts because I thought my sister and I were close, but apparently not. She even went as far as to tell me she doesn’t care about my boyfriend. That comment hurt because usually I can confide in her about my relationship but I don't know what made her not care anymore. It’s been almost 2 months now and she just hit me up today to ask if I could un cancel my Netflix so she could watch. Not a “how are you?”, “how’s life?”, or nothing just can I have, can I have, can I have! I’m at my wits end and although it sucks and it’s hurtful, I’m ready to cut the line and say you know what I tried but this is toxic and it’s not worth it because I do feel like it’s a one sided relationship. My question is should I? Or what would you do in a situation like this?