He was head over heels for some high school sweetheart for over a decade who never reciprocated. He tried to stay in contacted till the moment she started datjng someone. He was also dating someone. She got married and he also did a year later. They never were in touch again. She got divorced. He visited her Instagram on her birthday and liked one of her sad posts. I guess mistakenly. He's very happy in his life. Always posts about her. Appreciating her. Sharing their exciting new adventurous life. She is also moving on from her traumatic divorce and working towards a career. She saw his posts and yeah being in a bad situation she regretted choosing her husband. When you pass an abusive relationship you will think anything to cope.
She understands that he blocked her. Actually she thinks it's for the best because she has developed some sort of jealousy after her divorce where she cannot feel happy seeing others happy in a marriage. She used to look at his posts and feel bad about herself. So he has helped her in a way.
But all she wants to know is what was going on his mind that led him to block her suddenly? Why not block her before he got married or why now? His wife blocked her long ago. Feels like a blow to her because he was the one obsessed with her and now he's the one blocking.
Any opinion?
Yes I'm stupid. Apart from that.
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Because he didn't want to see her in his feed so he can live his life without thinking of her or being reminded of her
Shouldn't he just grow a pair and forget her along with blocking her.
No he can choose to forget how however he chooses lol u are talking about him growing a pair but u are upset he blocked you shouldn't u just grow a pair and move on?
Yes I should that's why I called myself stupid in the question.
But if u know this why do I feel he should have acted differently
Sorry. What do u mean? I didn't understand.
Also, I mentioned I went through a bad marriage and divorce. So I feel a roller-coaster of emotions. Sometimes I get obsessed with things like these.
Why would I say he should grow a pair when u equally know you could do the same
I guess feels insulting to get blocked when I didn't disturb him while he was the one stalking me. But yeah. I definitely should move on. I get that.
But how's it insulting u are not effected by him blocking u
No I'm not, in reality. But we usually block someone who's bothering us.
On hindsight, I would've probably done the same thing in his position.
He's unblocked me and texted me asking if I'm okay ND he was wondering why I ever u followed him.
Amazing
Ikr!
Thats upto you then on how u want to respond
It's cool. I can sense from his texts that he's not sketchy in any way. Just asking casually out of curiosity. It's me who was over thinking.