The guy is very confident, flirts with attractive women (alone AND in front of others) but avoids me and his body language and facial expressions indicate that he dislikes me (sneering, purposely looking in another direction etc.). He tries to keep conversation short and acts tense or disinterested but around his friends starts being super smiley, making good eye contact with me.
For instance when I walked past him and his friend once he started grinning, desperately tried to make eye contact with me by turning his body in my direction and overly enthusiasticly shouted good moooorning at me even though he barely acknowledges I exist when he is alone. Another time he came way to close to me with his face and later that day stared me down without smiling while walking by when I talked to his friend. What is his problem?
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I guess he knows something about who you are which he despises in reality (can range from anything like drug usage to political stances), but doesn't want to appear as a-hole to his friends? Honestly sounds like he has an ego problem. I'm wary of those kind of two-faced guys, I'd rather signal people directly what I think about them and spare the theatrics.
No he doesn’t I’m just a working student at the company 😂😂 and I don’t do anything illegal
And he ignored me from the first day, we barely talk and everyone else gets along with me fine
Yeah definitely sounds like an ego problem, he could be sneering at you because you're new. It happens.
That’s not his style actually. He is friendly to all kinds of people including newer ones
Could be biases, I don't know. If he was really so inclusive to new people he wouldn't be sneering at you.
Any idea what kind of bias he could have?
Honestly, I don't think I know enough about your situation to say with certainty. That's something for you to ponder about, I am afraid.
He's probably showing off or trying to impress his friends.
Ok but why does he dislike me?
He's attracted to you
Then why doesn’t he act attracted? He has no problem talking to other attractive women
Maybe you are different special maybe. chat try chat to him alone
I did and he tends to be dry with me but makes small talk with others