Search Results: she always stares at me

When I was about 14, my brother's girlfriend styled my hair. She literally said, ".. guys will be disappointed once they see your face!" In the moment, I didn't understand what she meant, so I asked my brother and he laughed. Then, commented "It's because you look like dad!"

A few weeks ago, I went on a cruise by myself. I heard a group of people talking about me as I walked by. "... why is she by herself? Because she's a man" In the moment, I laughed it off. Now, I'm ruminating about it.

Guys always stare at me, but they never approach me in public. I have green eyes, and few arm tattoos, so I always wonder whether they are looking at my eyes, tatts or trying to determine if I'm trans!

There's a guy in my neighborhood who always scopes me out.

He tried chatting me up but kept freezing.

Finally, he managed to look me in the eye and we exchanged "hello"s.

I noticed he wears a thin silver band on his middle finger on his right hand.

He is always staring from afar watching me intently but also breaking and avoiding eye contact -- I do the same because his staring weirded me out.

I can tell he and his co-workers talk about me because I've seen them and also they will look at him and stare at me when I go to his place of business.

He engages in "look at me" behaviours when I'm around

• Preening
• Always walking back and forth
• Adjusting his clothes
• Fidgeting a lot
• Even trying to show off his butt (kinda gross)
• Signing a tune if I'm nearby
• Being bossy to the cooks in the kitchen and trying to look serious and in charge

All of these antics for quite some time makes me thing he just wants validation from me and nothing else.

I've always seen him smoking and would always look at his cigarette in disgust. I haven't seen him smoking for the past little bit.

Since he keeps sending signals but does nothing is his ring a sign of him being in a serious relationship?

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