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Search Results: time after a breakup
Friends with benefits of 4 Years Pulling Away?
Some background: I’ve had an friends with benefits for 4 years. We’ve texted and hung out regularly, and slept together on and off that whole time. Due to different life stages and goals, I know it won’t be anything more...
Anonymous
(30-35) I reached out to my ex
After realising that my life would soon change completely, I reached out to my therapist and my ex, mainly because those were the most important people in my life at one point. Why my ex? I had high expectations with my...
tallandsweet
Editor Age: 24 Why is my ex stalking my Instagram from his fake account? Read description?
He told me about his fake account when we were still together around 2 years ago. He forgets things so he must've forgotten about it but I remember and I'm 100% sure it's him. We broke up 6 months ago (accurately) when he...
Anonymous
(25-29) Am I insane for wanting to try things again with a girl I briefly dated?
For context, it's important to note one thing right off the bat: I ended a long-term relationship two months ago. It had been a very long time coming, and I began the process of moving on prior to the breakup. I wound up...
Anonymous
(30-35) I got a messy love situation, can someone give me advice?
This is a long story, I’ll try to keep it short. Two of my friends started dating, and she knew I had a crush on the guy. He broke up with her in a shitty way, but he’s proved to me and other people that he’s not that guy...
isaw23
Xper 5 Age: 25 What’s the difference between space and a breakup?
my boyfriend asked me for space time alone from each other. He seemed really angry. He said he didn’t want me to come over the other day after going over to his, he said he wanted to be alone (time alone).
Anonymous
(18-24) HER: ". . . but you're a great guy and we can stay friends." HIM: "Bite me!"
One of the long-standing debates on this site concerns whether you should try to maintain a friendship with an ex after a breakup. The PC approved answer, if you are into regurgitating answers, is "of course you should....
u Why is he ignoring me?
My ex and I broke up just after he moved provinces. We had a big falling out, and after we broke up I thought we weren’t getting back together. About 3 weeks after our breakup, I hooked up with someone he’s *very* close...
LeoPride93
Xper 5 Age: 32 He no longer wants a relationship yet doesn't want me to move on to other guys and "get hurt again"?
This is a now ex. Whom seemed happy on the phone when we broke up. (It was otp because I didn't want to come over and knew what would happen). He mentioned how I made him feel bad about himself and we argued a lot....
Anonymous
(25-29) How do I get over my ex whom broke up with me?
We were in a relationship for about 6 months and I wasn't happy at times at all but I still stuck around because he begged me to. When he wasn't happy, he broke up with me and moved on like I meant nothing. He was...
nojokecarmichael
Yoda Age: 29 How do guys feel when getting back together after breakup? If you feel you can't see a future with someone, can that feeling change?
last month, my boyfriend broke up with me over the phone. I couldnt accept it and asked him to rethink but he was very adamant about the breakup. he thinks im too selfish and can't see a future with me. we talked and met...
jjjuvely
Xper 3 Age: 35 What do you really think drunk calls and texts mean?
are they genuine feelings or the exact opposite? i ended things with an ex four months ago but there are still times that we've talked post breakup. dont think we've gone through 3 weeks without either one of us...
Anonymous
(25-29) My ex is confusing me. could use some help figuring out what to do next?
ex and I dated for 2 years tell she broke up with me in December (she has since stated that was to "push me" to try and become a better person). The last couple of months I've been working my butt off to try and improve...
Anonymous
(25-29) My ex is confusing me, am I just overthinking this?
My ex and I dated for 2 years tell she broke up with me in December (she has since stated that was to "push me" to try and become a better person). The last couple of months I've been working my butt off to try and...
mben203456765432
Xper 3 Age: 27 Is it true that girls experience the most pain directly after a breakup whereas for guys the pain and regret is delayed?
I’ve read articles and seen videos that girls feel the most pain and hurt directly after a breakup while guys experience it more delayed. Initially they are excited to be free again but then over time grow to regret or...
Anonymous
(30-35) How to cope & move on from a long distance relationship that ended on bad terms?
My ex cheated on me & moved on to a new relationship right after our breakup. One day he just randomly said he want me to move on with my life & he don’t want to waste my time anymore. Then a few days later I found out...
Anonymous
(18-24) Is she genuinely into me or am I just a rebound?
rebound, pastime, a distraction, etc I don't know. met this girl about 4 years ago and technically we never actually talked, but knew each other (like friends on social media kind). she moved away 3 years ago and thats...
Anonymous
(25-29) Should I breakup with him?
He told me he didn’t even want me coming to meet his grandparents because of the stupid prank I played on him that I apologized for numerous times. Time to move on. He also asked me to pay for gas on the trip when it was...
Hannah_Ann_Linge
Xper 6 Age: 28 Unsure whether it's up to me (26F) to reach out to my ex-boyfriend (35M) or if he should be. Advice?
So my ex broke up with me in November 2020. He was extremely upset and cried a lot. I sort of could see the break up coming as things were stressful around that time period and I myself, a few times over the phone...
Anonymous
(36-45) Why Women Dump You After the Winter Holidays
Valentines Day Defines a Relationship Often times breakups happen around Valentines Day. It creates pressure on new and even old partners because it forces people to define what the relationship is and what it means. A...
