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I ask bc I often see questions from MEN on gag, regarding women being evasive when asked out. As if it is a behavioral flaw specific to a gender , rather than an occasional ( if not _ideal_) type of reaction any human being is capable of making, given the situation.

Asking and Hearing from women who regularly ask men out , they experience similar things.

I am wondering if the assumption that not being direct is something specific to women , may have developed bc men typically are not oit in the same position of having to answer on the spot.

It is easy to know what you want when you are the one who planned for it... Whereas if anyone is caught off guard and not sure about certain things it can be difficult to simply answer black and white.

I know there are all kinds of reasons a person may avoid saying yes or no

They do enough about the person to know if they are or are not interested

They don’t want to appear too eager

They are not sure his they feel

They dk if it’s honest question

They do if they will mess things up

they dk the person well enough to understand their question - what do they want when they ask

They may be interested but lack time or not sure if schedule

They may not want to have to say no

I think the last point is simply ONE among many
While anything other than yes is taken as the last.

I do understand wanting to get yes or be done with it.. However I wonder if everyone was accustomed to being asked out, if they might see that it is more complicated than yes or no.

so I’m asking guys who _have_ been asked oit have you always answered unequivocally , yes or no?

if not can you explain what was going on at the time to prevent your doing so?

Thank you !✨✨

For that sake of this question, I'm only considering a Bachelor's and higher.

I asked a question earlier about men finding women with a higher level of education attractive or intimidating. Most responses actually answered the question (which thank you to those who are able to do that) but there were some that thought I was 'bitter' because I'm single and educated (Bachelor's). Don't know how they got that conclusion from one question but any whooooooooooo...

I kinda noticed on this site in general that people without degrees like to knock down those who have one. It almost seems like they don't feel a Bachelor's is something anyone should be proud of. It's always 'wow, you wasted your money' or 'you know that doesn't make you smart, right?'

I'll be honest, but it seems like those comments come mostly from bitterness that they don't have a higher level of education or didn't have the ability to get one. I don't think I've ever seen anyone on here say that you need to get a Bachelor's so I don't get the anger from those who do not have one. I tell my students all the time that technical schools are great as are community colleges and certificated programs and that college is not the only avenue.

But it's getting really annoying that people who don't have a degree feel the need to knock someone down just because they do have one. I don't get that logic. I think they have the perception that a Bachelor's makes someone think they're better than others but really it's just being proud of your accomplishment. I think people without a degree act like they're better because they had this revelation that college is expensive as if no one with a degree knew that going in.

I've seen it from both men and women (though, granted, I've seen it a lot more from men) this attitude.