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What are your thoughts/opinions about the 10 guy code truths below:

1. When he says there’s no spark or that he sees you as a friend:
It either means you need to up your bedroom game or he isn’t attracted to you.

2. When he says he’s not ready to commit:
He’s either waiting for the next best thing or you’re not the only girl he’s seeing.

3. If he doesn’t get jealous at all:
He either doesn’t care enough or he’s too busy looking for something new/more interesting.

4. If he gets too jealous:
He’s either insecure about losing his power over you and will make it appear that he's really keen or he’s up to no good himself and uses the jealousy as a cover story.

5. If he wants space:
He’s either met someone else or he just doesn’t like you enough.

6. He doesn’t introduce you to his family:
He doesn’t see you as ‘marriage material’ and you’re just there until he meets ‘the one’.

7. If he doesn’t want to be with you now but ‘maybe’ in the future:
He doesn’t love you but even if he tells you that he does, it isn’t enough to be with you now. He wants to play the field first and if he can’t find anything better he will be back.

8. He doesn’t want you going out when he goes out:
He's either got a date lined up and/or you’re interrupting his ‘pulling game’.

9. If he would rather spend time with his friends over you:
You’re basically being used for sex and/or he doesn’t like your company as much as he should.

10. He either doesn't text/call back or takes days on end to respond:
He doesn't want to talk to you (he's not too busy with work/school/uni) or he is busy hitting up his latest squeeze.

This has boggled my mind we met online.. he is the perfect guy in person! I understand in taking things slow we live 3 hours apart.. we talked online for 2 months before we met.. he told me he thought I would stand him up.. we met half way in between it was absolutely amazing..

Its hard for us to hang out he works 3 days on 2 off 11pm- 7am.. I work by schedule thats out six weeks in advance most of the time 10:30am -7pm or 12pm- 8:30pn.. over the phone we do not talk much he only has text now.. It feels as though its serious on my end but not on his.. let me explain what I mean.. he insisted on meeting my family I just introduced him as his name cause I didn't know what we are.. a month ago I have not met his.. he's been devorsed for 3 years.. he has a son.. he said his parents treat him like a black sheep..

When I aaked him what we are? he said im your man there's no one else.. told me he has a hard time trusting that im his dream girl just he doesn't understand the timing.. he explained how he took a loan to pay off her school debt and his she cheated left him got prego from another guy and came back cause he kicked her out.. he told her hed raise the son with her as his own.. 2 months after she has him.. she cheats again they got a devorse and its been 3 years since he's brought any girl around his family... I really want to be the girl.. like were together first meal I always pay my own way the first meal he said he was prepared to pay.. I explained its something I have always done and not many guys have ever paid for me so looking forward to the second.. then he opened up about the fact I deserve better that he's trying to build back up and I said I dont want you money I want you.. I got a job getting rid of my own debt wanting to get a mini home and in his area.. he shows in many ways he cares for me he's never said I love you.. he told me he wants to marry me and for my goals.. told me to not give up but let him no if I want some1 else.