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I have a curly hair and i love it. However, sometimes i am in rush and it takes time and I don’t like to deal with it. Honestly, sometimes i wish we girls like men, we can cut our hair short without being judged by society etc who think girls with short hair are masculine or lesbian.
I wish if i could cut it this short, I wouldn’t say forever because i like long hair too but I’m afraid that my boyfriend would no longer likes me, also the society in general.
I wanna know why people think girls must be with long hair but it’s okay for men to with short hair. I used to think that only girls can grow long hair until i ask my boyfriend about his hair type and he repkied” men can have long hair too but we cut it because the society say that men should be with short hair”. His reply honetly opened my eyes into things i have never thought of.

Some background on my friend. She is very caring, strong, and loves getting people together. Sarah is pretty, always full makeup, hair curled, and always wearing something flattering. I am one who dresses more for comfort than appearance. I don’t like wearing makeup unless we are going out with friends or to do something where we are going to be in public all day. My boyfriend earlier on used to bring up how I should go shopping with my friend so I could start dressing like her. I told him her clothes are very expensive and not something I really wanted to put my money towards even when it comes to sweats. So for Christmas last year he bought me a bunch of lululemon. He says I need to be presentable when walking the dogs around our neighborhood. My friends have recognized when they all want us to do something the only person that can get my boyfriend interested is if Sarah tells him. He constantly gets upset with me that we never do what he wants, but he isn’t recognizing we always do what Sarah wants. He is a lot nicer and social with Sarah than he is with me. When I ask him why that is he says he would be the same way to me if I treated him how Sarah treats him. He is always asking who Sarah is dating and what she is up to. This is all so odd to me because he accuses me of having things with his friends if I even talk to them for 30 seconds, Let alone if I were to ever bring them up in convo. Last weekend I was upset about something else and it made me feel not good enough. He immediately brought up Sarah and how he doesn’t want her just me. My issue with the Sarah conversation isn’t that I think they would be together it is that I’m jealous of the attention and how nice he is to her in comparison to me. Throughout the night he would come up and say the same thing, I don’t want Sarah. I finally said I know for a fact Sarah doesn’t want you so I would really appreciate you stop saying that. It also just validates you aren’t hearing why that topic annoys me. So?

First of all I completely agree that all ethnicities should be represented in fairytales. But some of them are just supposed to stay as they are - which is white.

In german speaking TikTok the currant actress is a hot topic for following reasons:

1. It is a known fact that Snow White is a German Fairytale.

2. „Haare schwarz wie Ebenholz, Haut so weiß wie Schnee“ which translates to "Hair as black as ebony, skin as white as snow" - It is Snow Whites white skin that got her this name.

3. Nowadays naturally pale people are seen as sick, ugly and pasty. With Snow White having darker skin they take a source of comfort from us. What disney princesses are we supposed to show our children for comfort if they're harrassed for being to pale?

4. It seems like white people are losing representation in fairytales that come from OUR culture yet everyone yells out "cultural appropriation" when we use pieces of other cultures.

I already hear that "blanca nieves" is a popular fairytale in Spanish speaking countries but it is and will always be a GERMAN fairytale!

What are your opinions?