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Let's say your absolute smoking hot fantasy of a girlfriend turned out to be a gold digger who was super happy being with you as long as you were able to fund her lifestyle and there was nothing else wrong in the relationship. Sex is great. She treats you well. She just really likes your money too. Do you stay with her because well...she's hot and there are no other problems...or do you ditch her because no girl is worth that.

A friend of mine told my crush that I like him a couple of months ago. She thought she will be doing a really good thing although at the time I was not interested in pursuing anything with him. I told him that I had no intentions to follow up on this crush and that I did not ask my friend to intervene. He said he is comfortable with us beeing friends and that he likes it the way it is. He also has a lot of projects in front of him that require his whole attention. I don't even think he is looking for a girlfriend. I am sure though that physical atttaction is not the problem. I think he does find me attractive, at least a little bit. For a while we did not see each other because of outer circumstances but lately he reached out to me. We have ongoing conversations on the phone now and he has been opening up about his inner life quite a bit. He trusts me and talks to me about his problems and worries. I am a good listener and I like to be there for people I care about and also I feel I understand him really well. Do you think, that a guy can develop feelings of romantic attraction also based on that comforting and supportive connection? I like it the way it is now and I don't mind if it stays like this and my crush feelings are also not so strong anymore. But on the other hand it would be nice... What are your experiences with female friends? Did you develeop feelings based on a caring supportive nature?

I don't know I've noticed men just want women that wear makeup even if its a little bit, and have some feminine side to them. But I don't wear makeup, it hurts my skin and Its hard to get off and I hate the implication behind it like how I'm pressured to wear it. I've always never worn it yet I see all the women in the media wear it both fiction and real. I see a lot of women Ik that wear it and pressure me to wear it. What am I supposed to do? I'm not liked by anyone because I'm seen as someone that doesn't care about my looks, but I am not used to caring about my looks alongside not doing makeup, I don't get hair, or fashion either. Hell, I didn't even realize there were boy and girl clothes I've grown up just seeing them as pieces of materials and nothing more.

I'm not even masculine in personality Im just masculine in my style, it confused the hell out of my past bfs who got confused by my shy sensitive nature but then would never see me wear makeup, dresses, or know how to do my hair. I felt really bad and fake too.

Should I just get a girlfriend... I'm already bi so?
Should I try being feminine? considering I never have done it before...
Should I try wearing a little bit of makeup? despite sensory problems and co. wtf
sorry that ths is long

Homewrecker

A person who knows the man or woman is married but still goes for it. This low life of a person does not even care that there is children involved. This scumbag may even look for problems in the marriage and try to make themselves look better by using that time of weakness. In some cases they may not be successful in breaking up the marriage, but are successful in breaking your heart and making you question everything in the future.
She started with Facebook , her and my husband talk. She told me she was happily married and she was not one of them crazy x-girlfriends. I told them that I didn't want them to talk anymore things didn't add up. She was using our problems and acting as if she worshiped the ground he walked on. And only he can understand her. (Boosting his ego) Now she's unhappy in her relationship. I told her off, and she spoke to me as if she was the wife and mother of his children! Needless to say it went back and forth. He clams she is out of her mind to think that she had some kind of future with him and our children. He clams he never wants to talk to her again __ Like I said "they are successful in breaking your heart and making you question everything in the future"_ Homewrecker

This is my take^^^^^^^