If a guy moves on in 2 days does that mean he never cared about his girlfriend?

[Anonymous]

I broke up with my boyfriend because we were having a lot of problems he moved out the same day. the very next day someone tried to use his information to apply for a credit card he thought it was me and text me and told me to leave him alone. a few hours later I tried to call him and fix our relationship he ignored my phone calls and messaged me a question mark later that night. I told him I would leave him alone if that's what he wanted he replied with ok. The next day I tried to talk to him he didn't want to talk I asked him if he wanted to talk before I changed my number and deleted his number out my phone he called me 5 minutes later. we talked and he said he wanted to fix our relationship. But he keeps sending me dry late responses he purposely ignores my messages I asked him when was he coming home he told me he wanted to wait a month or 2 I asked him to come over today he didn't even want to do that and he's been acting like he dont want to be with me anymore so I asked him if he just wanna be friends or actually work on our relationship he said it didn't matter its up to me like he dont care I told him it seems like he's done and don't want to do this and he ignored my message


There was a lot of reason I ended the relationship but I tried to fix things the next day he told me everyday how he loved me and wanted to marry and Start a family with me one day but it seem like he moved on already and dont want to be bothered with me was he just lying when he said he cared about me?

[MrOracle]

All I'm hearing is that you were both immature and chaotic, and had poor lines of communication between you. It is childish to break up with someone if you think you have any interest in saving the relationship, for example.

He sounds like he's a mess, but you don't come across as all that much better, I'm sorry to say. I'd say that you are better broken up, and that you should do some work on yourself, and realize that if you don't have good communication and good long-term compatibility with someone, then no matter how you FEEL about them, you're never going to have a relationship that works.

Take a bit of time and figure out what YOU want in life. Be realistic - no fairy tale dreams. Then find someone with a compatible set of goals that you can get along with, and can talk to honestly, and you might be able to build a real relationship on that.

[Nawlins34]

"If a guy moves on in 2 days does that mean he never cared about his girlfriend?" Short answer? Yes.

"was he just lying when he said he cared about me?" - The answer is irrelevant. Because..." I asked him if he just wanna be friends or actually work on our relationship he said it didn't matter its up to me"

When a guy's words and actions don't match; go by his ACTIONS.

He's done, doesn't matter if he cares or not.

Knowing that, the WORST thing you can do, is get into a relationship with him again, because as of this post, you're knowingly wasting your time with him.

No relationship, no friendship (it won't be worth the headache). Drop him

Be safe and good luck.

[Fvghtlxght]

That just shows he has a problem staying single. It doesn't help him get over his hurt feelings with you any faster. In fact he'll probably bring his issues from your past relationship into his new one. Since he didn't give himself time to move on he's probably going to do the same things he did with you and not learn his lesson. And especially he's going to be damaged more than ever and his girlfriend right now is dating damaged goods. He's not at his full potential to be a good person. He's just a man running away from his problems and trying to keep himself together.

[Fvghtlxght]

Thank you for mho :)

[dustybiker]

No. It just sounds like he left the relationship (at least detached mentally) a long time before it actually ended.

[OlderAndWiser]

People resolve their disappontmnt, anger, and grief after a break up in different ways. Some folks go into a spell of withdrawal and depressive symptoms, and others start loking for a new partner and they resolve their feelings gradually.

[RotOfStars]

He cared about you. That's why he is acting so hurt. He was very vulnerable with you and now he is in pain. For some men it's easier to completely cut someone off and dive into something new to avoid the fact that the are insecure and don't know how to process their emotions.

If I had any advice. It would be not to suffocate him. He needs breathing room if there is gonna be a chance that you will get back together. Let him remember that he misses you. Maybe you can work shit out when he initiates agian. Right now he is on a trip about "how much better it will be now that I'm single." Reality will check him in a week or two. Three tops

[glennos89]

Sometimes it's really helpfull to separate from eachother for a while in order to figure out what you really feel for rhe other person.

I also had moments in the past where I wanted to brake up with my girlfriend but after a few weeks of not being with her or talking to here I started to realise how much she really meant to me and came to the understanding that I reallly didn't wanne let her go actually.

Even lovers need a holiday sometimes being far away from eachother in order to get things straight again. My advise is to let him figure things out on his own without contacting him in any way, shape or form and give him the false feeling that you are moving on because as long as you keep texting him he will have full control of the situation in his head and I think you should try to turn that arround. Ignoring him wil make him think twice about his decisions andd actions and lets him think twice wether he wants to lose you or not

[Interstate]

He either didn't have feelings or lost them. But the fact that it was only two days, and he has moved on says it is also possible he is on the rebound. But just tell yourself it was for the best it turned out this way, be glad you found out the truth now before it was too late and move on with life.

[Ghostluck]

Not for me, it just means by the time the relationship was over, i was just done and had been done for a while. By the time I end a relationship, I had already given that woman every chance in the world to change, so by the time I end it, I am just over it.

[ACR130]

Not to sound like a dick but You broke up with him and then you're asking him when he will be home? Come on, to me it sounds like you want him back because after the break up you realized he wasn't going to beg to stay in your life and just move on so you were trying to pull him back by asking if he wants to fix the relationship. Anyways bidk what will happen but good luck to both of you.

[BCA6010]

I wouldn't say "never cared," but he was probably at the point where he expected to break up. That or he jumped into a rebound relationship that probably won't last long.

[TheSpaceGnome]

If a woman doesn't want to keep me, then any love I genuinely had for her before (when she still wanted me), is now gone.

I don't do rebound relationships, But I do get over any ex that doesn't love me, the moment I realize she doesn't.

[1GoldTwins]

That is possible but it could also mean that he found closure. And someone who finds closure can move on quickly

[MTC29]

Two days is not boyfriend/girlfriend. It is a hookup.

[Guy13]

I like a guy who does not play around. Say what you mean and mean what you say…

[jshm2]

Seems you were were both immature idiots, and it was a good thing it didn't work out.

[humanearth]

Wrong, they care

But screwing someone else right away, it covers up their feelings for you.

[SeekingVirginWife]

You should find a husband in a man who is virgin saving himself.

[CP67at]

If a girl move on with her life with in two days that's means she never cared about her Ex- Boyfriend at all?

[Anonymous]

You are like confused kids or headless chickens. either grow up or Leave dating to the adults.

[WhitneySnow]

I think he’s done with the relationship

[Ironmunkee]

Sounds like he wants to keep you as an option.

[baserunner611]

Yes, sorry you was a booty call

[IAmPessoa]

I would say yes he never cared