Why do some guys move so fast in a relationship?

I've been dating my boyfriend for over 2 years now. And we haven't even talked about moving in. Well I made a comment once, I saw a billboard for a new condo being built. I saw the people on the picture and I told my boyfriend "that could be us". I was just joking of course, but he immediately deflected it.

So then I tried to ease the situation by saying "Well, obviously not anytime soon". And then he just said no. And I said, but eventually right?" and he was all "I dunno..".

I don't really get it. I mean some guys move so fast. My one friend has been dating her boyfriend for 5 months. 5 MONTHS and they are now living together!

I have a friend who was dating his girl 6 months and they moved in together. Now they have a baby and are engaged, and it hasn't even been a year.

I get it's better to wait. But you think that a guy would at least be planning stuff with you after the 2 year mark. Even if it's plains that won't happen for another year or so.

Now don't think I am looking for a free ride. I make my own money. I make just as much as my boyfriend, and I have a steady job. I already graduated college, own my own car and have my own place. But I'm just curious why some guys will be willing to move in with a girl after a short period of time, and yet someone like me has such a hard time?

Why can't my guy be over the moon to have me in his life? My friend gets to live with her boyfriend and he always does nice things for her.

My boyfriend does nice things, but stuff like Valentine's day he won't participate in. Kinda bums me out. I've never received flowers from him.

Why do some guys move so fast in a relationship?
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