If he’s talking to other girls on the dating app too, does that mean he’s not actually interested in me?

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Am I overthinking or should I move on? Do I have a chance with this guy from a dating app?

In February, I matched with a lovely guy on a dating app. Let’s call him John. He always sent me long messages and lots of questions and we found out a lot about each other. It was exciting. He never replies instantly, sometimes vanishing for a few days but always returned. Finally, he asked me if I would like to grab coffee sometime. But the coffee never happened because of coronavirus.

I sent him my number and we continued texting off the app, checking in now and again to see what we’ve been getting up to during the lockdown. However, during lockdown he started to become really slow at replying and at one point didn’t reply for over two weeks. However, he often tells me he’s excited when we get the chance to meet.

The app we met on, I can see when he’s last active, and although we talk off the app, I notice that he logs into the dating app every 2-3 days or so, but now he takes a week to reply to me. Does this mean he’s not interested in me anymore? He still sends me long messages like email style and lots of questions. But he takes a week to reply to me at the moment but is active back on the dating app more than he replies to me. Am I overthinking here?

He’s also not tried to make plans with me since the lockdown was announced to be easing :(
If he’s talking to other girls on the dating app too, does that mean he’s not actually interested in me?
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