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Hi guys, so I've had a crush on this one guy and I've been debating if I should dm him on insta wishing happy holidays? Will I come off as needy? Must say we talk and he tells me stuff even though he's the type of guy that doesn't tell anybody anything. FYI: Not too long ago I asked him why doesn't he add me on insta (I haven't requested anything just wanted to see his reaction) and he was in shock (he said noo way maybe that cause I'm barely there). Two hours later I sent him a request and he accepted it immediately (seems like he waited for me to do so) and sent me a follow request just as quickly. Does this mean anything?

• You have to pay bribes to get higher education and a job, especially if you didn’t score 99.99%.

• When you use the Right to Information Act, they refuse to disclose any information.

• A tea seller becomes the leader of the country and then tells others to sell tea instead of providing jobs, while he wears clothes that are 1000 times more expensive than what the average person in his country can afford.

• Some people get reservations based on their caste in both educational institutions and jobs.

• Interviewers ask stupid questions, like whether you can cook or if you listen to hymns, even if the job doesn’t require any of those skills or qualifications.

• You receive at least one call from scammers every month.

• Rape and arranged marriages are the most common ways for boys to get sex.

• Three out of ten boys ask you to send them lots of pictures before they take you seriously.

• Boys who lack skills and have a thin, short penis demand 5 million dollars (either directly or by asking about your income) to marry you.

• This country has the highest number of iron rod insertions inside female bodies.

• Stray animals roam freely on the roads, even in big cities.

• Finding human feces at railway stations or on roads is rather common.

• The accent sounds very unpleasant, and they’re proud of it. They bully you if you don’t talk like them.

• They sell dangerous cosmetics to lighten women’s complexions but lose their minds if a safer lightening cream is released for men in that country.

• Only boys are supported and encouraged to leave the country. Girls have to marry one of those boys to have a chance at moving abroad.

• They can memorize facts like robots, but if you ask them for a reason, they can’t explain it in simple words (and if you can’t explain something in simple words, you don’t understand it, according to Einstein).

• Parents here think their children, especially girls, are their slaves.

I matched with someone on 2 other OLD apps before we matched again on this one. The 1st time, maybe 2-3 msgs were exchanged before I deleted the app. 2nd time, we move to IG & he initiates wanting to meet up but I was put off by the fact that he never looks at my stories/reacts to posts but wants to meet in person. I just feel like you should show some kind of interest in my personal life if you’re quick to meet in person. This time around, he asks how I’m doing and actually talks about something interesting, which is what makes me reconsider. From earlier last week to this past weekend, we’d message maybe 1-2x a day on the OLD app but it was 24 hrs before he replied again to me. He answers my question & asks if I’d be interested in doing some kind of activity with him. Tbh, I’m busy this weekend & would consider the next but I don't know if he’d buy that. He said next week might be better b/c he’s also busy but the fact reply time isn’t the 2x daily anymore (he still replies within the 24 hrs so far & I can take a bit longer), I just feel that along with the lack of engagement on social media implies I should just stop it in it’s tracks.

I matched with someone on 2 other OLD apps before we matched again on this one. The 1st time, maybe 2-3 msgs were exchanged before I deleted the app. 2nd time, we move to IG & he initiates wanting to meet up but I was put off by the fact that he never looks at my stories/reacts to posts but wants to meet in person. I just feel like you should show some kind of interest in my personal life if you’re quick to meet in person. This time around, he asks how I’m doing and actually talks about something interesting, which is what makes me reconsider. From earlier last week to this past weekend, we’d message maybe 1-2x a day on the OLD app but it was 24 hrs before he replied again to me. He answers my question & asks if I’d be interested in doing some kind of activity with him. Tbh, I’m busy this weekend & would consider the next but I don't know if he’d buy that.