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I'm currently on Match. The reason being around here "pickings" are slim. By this I mean drug abuse, alcoholism, welfare, cheating, etc. is quite common. It's a small very low-class town. I went on one date with a local & even that one date indicated he had a controlling persona.

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Now I work in medical & during COVID was insanely busy - I was overseeing not one but two pharmacy/clinic combinations - and there was also the fact that my gym closed down so exercise was more or less nonexistent.

I put on some weight but I am in the midst of taking it back off. And when I can hike for 2-3 hours a day on the weekend it won't take me long come the summer to do that.

My question is, should I wait until fit to rejoin Match or any online dating site? Or should I include something in my bio & let men decide?

The reason I ask is I am actually quite attractive - was approached in university by a modeling company - when I am fit & I don't want to be approached solely on looks. My cousin tried match & she found most of the men who approached her on looks to be boring dullards with little to offer except bank accounts.

ever since my brother got married at 30 he no longer exists in my life. He’s had same girlfriend since 18 & now he’s 36-37 & his wife is toxic & doesn’t want him be with our family or sister , she treats me bad & stuffs bad things in his head. She controls him & he seems to be the girl in relationship weak. She has face of a man so I don't know y he’s crazy for her. they have kids too & my brother only spends time with her sisters & I don’t exist anymore.