How do you heal from a man I still love that wants to divorce because he doesn’t love me anjmoty?

[Hannahbanana94]

Husband and I have been seperated for a bit and he came back for our son to try and fix things. After a week he brought up divorce again and moved to the guest bedroom and said our son wasn’t enough I stay in the marriage for because he no longer loved or liked me. And that he doesn’t even think he loved me when we got married but grew to love me and now fell out of love. Cause I harass and “control”. Which I don’t feel like I do. I feel like treatments were mutual but it doesn’t matter because if you love someone you should be willing to try everything to make it work. 10 year relationship.

he is living in rhe guest bedroom right now and will not be moving out until divorce papers finish probably. Even though we have another house that is empty that he can go live in. I can’t even heal because every time I see him I break. I begged for him to stay with me. I cried pleaded and begged. I feel like I lost all my self worth and feel like nobody.

[TroyDT2]

When a relationship is based upon "feelings" rather than a commitment, this is usually the unfortunate result.

[whiskeyontherocks]

Healing will take time and be humbling for sure.
But if there is anything worth saving it maybe help to seek counseling for both of you

[KrakenAttackin]

Well, congratulations. You are feeling like the overwhelming majority of men when their wives shit in them. Do what men do, suck it up.