My ex was a narasssist and he hurt me over the year extremely badly to the point I felt suicidal, I was in such a bad state.
My friend also went behind my back and stabbed me in the back despite knowing all that this person made me go through as she witnessed the abuse forself. From asking her for support intially to sort things out with my ex, she made it about herself.
She did it by being sneaky and disloyal to me.. They both hurt me a lot so I cut them both off. After so much difficulty I moved on from these traumatic incident of them both breaking my trust and hurting me. My friend went behind my back to maintain a bond with my exes friends and her motive is apparently to hurt the other guy. Despite me saying please cut them off as i want nothing to do with my ex or his people. She never told me the truth but I found out through someone else (there's more to that story overall and much bigger than what am saying atm).
Currently am always getting triggered because of how they both broke my trust and hurt me. I am trying to heal but it still hurts knowing they both hurt Me at the same time. My ex also cheated on me and humiliated me on a groupchat and was breadcrumbing Me.
It is my fault for involving my mate in my personal situation in the first place but she never valued me anyway as a friend. She told another friend she misses me but what friend turns on her own friend and then justifies that at least it's not my ex and its her personal thing. When I never wanted nothing more besides support from her as a friend but she was going after his mate who played her oneday anyway instead. She doesn't care about me. She knew these guys are bad yet she still saw my exes boys one night and didn't tell me and calls me for help the next day without saying she saw him. I cut her off as she made a mockery of our friendship
This is the final straw of what I encountered & 2 loss of betrayal. Neither of them cared for me. I pray I heal...
Have you experienced this?
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Hey girl. Yes I have and a lot of other women have…hang in there. It gets better. Focus on yourself and block them out of your life as soon as you can. Looks forward and take the time to do things for yourself to be happy and live a fulfilled life. It will get better.
Thank you soo much 💓 I hope soo.
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Yes and I struggled for over a year, finally when I thought I was getting over it, he came back.. he brought all of the emotions back with him… I had to start over again, but this time, there’s no going back.. He still means a lot to me, but I don’t want to hurt anymore.
Wow, that's deep.