Poll- Girls, do you still talk & see your brother after he got married?

[Sugar100]

ever since my brother got married at 30 he no longer exists in my life. He’s had same girlfriend since 18 & now he’s 36-37 & his wife is toxic & doesn’t want him be with our family or sister , she treats me bad & stuffs bad things in his head. She controls him & he seems to be the girl in relationship weak. She has face of a man so I don't know y he’s crazy for her. they have kids too & my brother only spends time with her sisters & I don’t exist anymore.

Yes

No

[bubblegunnn]

Luckily yes! I talk and see him everyday, and his kids are precious i love my nieces. Also his wife, we could get along very much well, we're hangout together, company her to salon and more..

[Sugar100]

Lucky I no longer hav a brother my sister In law only wants him with her family my brother don’t exist in my life.

[bubblegunnn]

Awe babe that suckssss.. but at least he could still visit u on holiday tho

[Sugar100]

No he don’t , he spent it only with wife’s family

[Sugar100]

He don’t exist in my life

[bubblegunnn]

When was the last time u met him?

[Sugar100]

2-3 years ago. I did see him few months ago cuz his wife invited me to her party but she and him
Ignored me. Like he didn’t even want hug me acted like I don’t exist like she shoved bad things in his head. I’m in my own world living my life and I have no idea what she told him about me.

[bubblegunnn]

Omg thats bad.. u must be so sad. How about texting?

[Sugar100]

No she got mad few years ago cuz she said I would call my brother when I’m sick only. That period I was sick daily it wasn’t my fault I was sick. She’s a bitch I call him when I missed him obvisouly I want talk when I’m sick too

[Sugar100]

She reads replies to his texts. Is next to him when he’s talking

[Sugar100]

Tells him what to say

[bubblegunnn]

Ok pm me lets talk on pm shall we?

[Andres77]

She sounds toxic

[Andres77]

My ex put a wedge between my family and me. I let her do it. I eventually snapped out of it. Had to repair the damage. Too bad he doesn’t see what she’s done. I’m sorry for your situation.

[Sugar100]

Wdym wedge?

[Andres77]

it's a figure of speech. placing a wedged shaped object in a crack in a log and pounding it in with a sledge hammer spreads to the wood apart until it eventually splits/separates. so my ex figuratively drove a wedge between my family and me, by discouraging me from talking or visiting them, not giving me phone messages, throwing away mail from my family before i got home, making negative comments about my family to me and her kids. just wicked and selfish. i know how it feels.

[Sugar100]

Oh that’s what my sister in Law does. Fill his mind with bad things of me

[Sugar100]

But he’s so brainwashed my brother is gone

[Sugar100]

He’ll explode if u say anything bad of his evil wife. He even said once he don’t care of me n only cares of her n the kids

[Andres77]

sorry to hear that. life is hard enough, we don't need people being actively cruel and manipulative.

[Sugar100]

But I don’t get y she wants him hav no family? She’s a family person I don’t get It

[Andres77]

don't try to understand evil or insanity. it will never make sense.