How men can start taking control of their life!

[Truth0225]

Men these days, I’m sorry to say are being inhibited by all these different groups claiming that masculinity is toxic. I am a firm believer in not trying to fix or alter something that has worked for generations. The fact of the matter is, men and women ARE in fact different. People view this in a negative sense when in fact it is not negative at all. In life men are supposed to be providers, protectors. Women are supposed to be more nurturing. This is human/animal nature. Men have to start taking back their masculinity and the following points are a guide line on how to do so.

1- WORK OUT: men have to start working out and improving their strength and look. Men who work out not only look more dominate but also have a higher level of testosterone and feel good about themselves.

2- STOP PUTTING WOMEN ON A PEDESTAL: the fact that social media has made it that women have much more oppertunity to be hit on by men, as made it so that men put aside their morals and ethics in order to have a woman because it is so competitive out there. Stop doing this. Women are humans just like men are. Stop overlooking bad behavior because you feel that you will not be able to compete. Be comfortable being single, let opportunities for relationships come to you, and they will come when you know your worth.

3- STOP COMPARING: I see a lot of questions on this site regarding penis size and men feeling inadequate. Educate yourself on how to please a woman, and understand that you are unique just being you, there is no need to compare yourself to someone else because they can never be you and you can never be them. Learn to be comfortable with who you are and what you have and make it work for you.

4- STOP ASSUMING: Stop assuming that you can’t get the girl, stop assuming that people will judge you for stepping in the gym, stop assuming that you will fail. You never know until you try and you will take a lot of L’s in the journey but when you succeed you will be extra proud of yourself.

5- DEVELOP YOUR CAREER: Men, get a job, and I’m not talking about some shitty minimum wage job. Find a career that gives you fulfillment. Find a career, invest in yourself, do something that will be able to give you financial freedom and give you the necessities to enjoy your motherfucking life. Don’t get held back by lack of funds.

CONCLUSION: I know some people will take offense to this post or find something wrong with it, but at the end of the day, these things will improve your life and set you up for success. As said in the 48 laws of power, be a king in your own right, move like a king to be viewed as one.

[fembotnpc777]

I'm tired of men thinking they're a good guy for putting a random woman on a pedestal who gave them a blowjob in a restroom. Yeah, you're such a good guy for wanting to put kids in a random ho. No, you dumb.

Women don't say they see that but they do. Pedestalizing is weak character. Let her earn the right, and I'll respect you.

[DCowboy4747]

You're a trip, but you are right. Any man who will put a female on a pedestal or some random thing has no business being in the dating world, let alone reproducing. Being a "Good Guy" has Nothing t do with any sexual/physical act. A good guy is the man who opens the door for a person, offers to pay for a ladies meal then leaves, there are a lot of different things Men do for a lady/fellow 'depending on your preference now days' that truly show if he is a Gentleman or now. The boys now just don't know how to be men because they expect every woman out there to be just like their mother and take care of them and their needs.

[OddBeMe]

I would agree with all your points, honesty…except the very first one. We change constantly. And obviously masculinity or society hasn’t worked for generations or there wouldn’t have been slavery or a need for women’s suffrage.

[Truth0225]

Being masculine didn’t cause slavery or women’s suffrage.

[OddBeMe]

Arguable. But my issue was with your statement: “I’m not for changing things that’s worked for generations.” Slavery worked for a lot longer. And we changed it. It’s called progress.

[CallmeTheKnight]

I agree, but you forgot about controlling his emotions. Weak men have no kind of control over their emotions and are dangerous

[Truth0225]

Agreed!

[GOOSEBOY78]

masculinity never was toxic.

just more SJW BS and everybody took it as fact. they just found a new way to pigeon hole the terms like the music snobs who says that certain kinds of metal is "insert"core

if you want to be a man and grill a steak (meat, fire and alcohol the mens food pyramid) go grill a steak. if you want to sit on your butt and eat potatoe chips do that too.

remember men: you dont HAVE to everything these SJW are telling you. its ok if you want to shave so you dont have a hipster beard. its ok if you want to look like a fat fk cos we all can't be in the gym all the time...

some of us have to do the terrible jobs to exist

[Billlewis]

The best way for a guy to get into better control of his life is to make a firm commitment to please the superior female in as many ways as possible. Once you've taken that first step and acknowledged that women should be placed on a pedestal, everything else will fall into place.

[JesseP1nk]

Don´t listen those blue hair junkies.

Do workout, build muscles, learn martial arts, take care of your family and friends. Be honest and forthcoming with your motivations. Learn more ways to make money. If you like someone, then tell them. If they dont like you back, then move on - and be happy you saved yourself a lot of time.

[Tamera952]

Oh ok …. what are you, a disciple of Andrew Tate, or what? Maybe you should ditch the bogus & skewed oversimplification of what’s wrong with gender roles, & think for yourself.

[DCowboy4747]

I will never be controlled, I run my life the way I want to run it, but sadly this is an obsolete opinion. A lot of men just don't want to run their own lives anymore, currently we have a generation of children who think they know what they want, but still look to Mommy and Daddy to take care of them and their bills. Real men like Cowboys are a dying breed.

[humanearth]

How can men start taking control of their life?

Easy, stop reading into the bullshit and do what comes naturally

There's no books to read, no gym to go to, and do what you feel is right.

[burlen]

As far I know men do not need to start taking control of their lives because they have been taking control of their lives since primitive time.

[LiamJHayden]

Good. Basically focus on being the best "you." I would add that many guys really need to learn how to control negative emotions. Those seem to be the downfall of many.

[AdithyaR]

I don't see anything wrong with what you said here. Not sure why someone would be offended.

[brysunrowcliffe]

to have a good guy is not to do durgs not to be toxic/drink to much

[AlyssaSweet]

This is the truth. A lot of men these days are scared to be manly and be judged.

[Hassan_8]

Totally agree