Search Results: hurt in relationships

Should females always be playing victim?

I know in relationship arguments women often tend to quickly play victim and call the guy abusive after a heated exchange, but a lot of times guys say they have their reasons. Is it really right to play victim? Or should...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Is my boyfriends behaviour justified?

My boyfriend and me started an online LDR 3 months ago and things have been really great. We spoke about our expectations for the relationship, like marriage, living circumstances, finances, employment and our personal...

Anonymous

(25-29)

I am 31 and still single.. the idea that all my friends get married hurt me a lot.. no one loves me why?

I am a doctor i was in a long term relationship and he left me for another gurl.. since two years no one ask me out.. i feel like i am invisible..

Anonymous

(30-35)

How do you guys advise me getting me over the betrayal aspect of my breakup?

Hey guys so my ex broke up with me after we were together for four years. He left me in a very low moment. He knew this because I shared my struggles with him for months and months, cried day in and day out only for him...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Society & Politics

Do You Think That Democrats and Republicans Are Truly Irreconcilable?

OK, I'm going to just say upfront: Try to play nice, y'all. But honestly, do you feel like there is really much difference between the people in each political party? At first glance, there are obviously opposing views,...

Anonymous

(30-35)

How to handle a break up?

I was in a relationship for about a month with a manchild. He’s unemployed, lives at home, the list goes on. Thanks to all the people here for making me realize he’s a loser and I could do much better. He was not a good...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

What are signs to look for that the one you're seeing wants a loving relationship with you?

I think understanding these signs can be underrated at times honestly. But based on my findings: They are open with you about what's on their mind and going on in their life and honest about how they feel about...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Do you think a narcissistic man would say this or?

I met up with a guy for some tea and we were getting to know eachother a bit… I post pics that are sexy/revealing but not too much. I mentioned that my dad used to be a minister…. I don’t know how it came about but he...

Anonymous

(25-29)

I met up with a guy for some tea and we were getting to know eachother a bit… I post pics that are sexy/revealing but not too much. I mentioned that my dad used to be a minister…. I

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Are you afraid about entering new relationships after getting hurt badly?

scott04sa22

Guru Age: 40

Have you "found yourself"?

A lot of people have dating and relationship issues because they don't really figure out who they are before diving head first into the dating pool -- which can lead to hurt feelings and quite a bit of nasty scenarios...

DishLady

Master Age: 52

Why do some ghosters gaslight you when you ask them what’s wrong?

I had a best friend of over 10 years who suddenly started to fade out of my life. When I noticed her being too “busy” to see me, I asked her if I did anything to hurt her and she said everything was fine she just has a...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Would you still get jealous even tho you decided to not pursue things further?

A few months algo I stopped talking to this guy after he opened up about not emotionally available and we just weren’t aligned with what the other one wanted which is fine, I truly believe he liked me, he once said he...

Anonymous

(25-29)

I dont want to be used but dont want to lose him completely... any idea what to do?

I've known my best friend for 5 years. His family is more like family then my own. Been friends through several relationships. I haven't been in a relationship for 4 years. They have always ended horribly, and 2 of which...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Family & Friends

How do you deal with mean sisters?

I feel like I'm at my breaking point. I am the oldest of four kids and I have sisters who are twins and two years younger than me. They can honestly be very cruel and mean. They always argue together towards me, they...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Should I be worried if my fiance still talks to someone he's admitted to trying to hook up with while we were "on a break"?

He told this girl that he never believed in love at first sight until he met her... That hurts and is obviously why I am still bothered by their relationship.

Anonymous

(36-45)

Can a relationship move on if it became healthy after years of not being it?

Hi. Me and my boyfriend had a not so healthy first 3 and a half years. There was lying, breaking boundaries, yelling, arguing, and so on. However, the last one year something changed and we stepped on the road of a...

Anonymous

(25-29)

This is an age-old question, but how do you get trust back? Is it even possible?

I've been hurt and traumatised by the past and past relationships which made my trust fizzle out and disappear. I know getting my trust back would solve like...90% of my problems, but I've no idea how to go about it....

ToriitheGoblin

Xper 3 Age: 24