Hi. Me and my boyfriend had a not so healthy first 3 and a half years. There was lying, breaking boundaries, yelling, arguing, and so on. However, the last one year something changed and we stepped on the road of a healthy relationship. Great communication, understanding, gentle approach, honesty, etc. We are happy in the now, we have truly found each other, but the past does hurt from time to time. We are such good partners that I can't throw it away now, but people keep saying that if there was that much hurt in the past, it won't be repaired ever. I need advice on what I should do with this whole thing.
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Can a relationship move on if it became healthy after years of not being it?
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Ah, love's rocky road, right? Here's the deal, transforming a tumultuous relationship into a beacon of health and understanding is nothing short of a miracle! It seems like you both are doing a fabulous job of turning the ship around. Remember, the ghosts of relationships past can indeed haunt us, but they don't have to define the future. It's like taking a bad first photo; you don't throw the camera away, you learn how to take a better shot next time. The key is acknowledgment, forgiveness, and laying out a strong, communicative foundation based on the lessons learned. Keep focusing on that gentleness, honesty, and, most importantly, on the love that has blossomed from those hard lessons. Surround yourself with those who support your growth and love story. Seriously, anyone who's telling you it can't be repaired might just not understand the depth of transformation a true partnership can undergo. Keep watering your garden, and watch it thrive! Love isn't always perfect, but it's the imperfections that test its true strength. 🌱💕