I dated two women, back-to-back, who left me to return to their former boyfriend or husband. Neither was involved with the ex when I got involved, but both of them had broken up the previous relationship recently and - obviously - they were not resolved and ready to move forward. Towards the end of both relationships, it became obvious that the ex was more important and I was just the "someone else" who had once been convenient but now was a problem that needed to be resolved.
This happened about 43-45 years ago but I still remember them very well. It was a sad time in my life but, after the second one, I learned to respect myself. I never again tolerated being in such a position and my future relationships were mostly much healthier.
Were you ever the "someone else?" How did you resolve that situation and what did you learn from it?
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