How do you guys advise me getting me over the betrayal aspect of my breakup?

[Anonymous]

Hey guys so my ex broke up with me after we were together for four years. He left me in a very low moment. He knew this because I shared my struggles with him for months and months, cried day in and day out only for him to leave me two weeks before the biggest test of my life. I shouldn’t be exactly shocked, Over the course of our relationship, he broke up with me 10 times And I never once left him or even threatened the idea. Last time he broke up with me, I was so hurt that he could leave me To suffer while he went out and Lived his life. I decided And told him I did not want to be friends and I don’t think he should contact me. It’s been four months. I’ve made tremendous progress, but one thing I can’t shake somebody who said they loved me can Leave me, when they know how low I was. Any thoughts? When these feelings arise, I sit with them and try to process them so I can move forward but a little advice would help thanks

[Paris13]

Think to Yourself That a Loser Like This, Was Selfish and Unfeeling When You Needed Him the Most and Now----You are Better off Without HIM. Huggggggs. xxoo

[Pterodon]

Well first he didn’t feel the same about you as you him. Second he broke up with you ten times. That should’ve been your first red flag. Third on/offs never work in the end. An ex is an ex for a reason. Why did you keep going back? People don’t change

[DishLady]

Since you have no other option OTHER THAN to get over it, you just need to be a big girl and move on.