Search Results: Who do I choose

My crush (who used to like me or be at least slightly interested In getting to know me) and I are taking a course this semester. When we were asked to form groups he looked at me a few times but I already joined another. When two girls approached him he started to flirt with one of them very obviously and loudly. He seemed very flattered and surprised by her and said „WTF?“ to his friend when he left the room.

A few days later during the lecture (his group partner wasn’t there) he stared at me for 10 seconds from afar but I didn’t react. Now he seems to focus on her and acts slightly nervous around her but up until last week he didn’t greet her or sit next to her so I thought there was not much going on.

However two days ago this girl chose to sit right in front of me (she was the second person after me to enter the room so there were plenty of empty seats to chose) and my crush sat right next to her and was all cutesy and giggly with her. A few times when he leaned very close into her he glanced over at me but I forced myself not to look at both of them once.

My questions are:

1. Why did she choose to sit in front of me? I highly doubt that that was a coincidence

2. Why does he put her on a pedestal but not me (acting all nervous and competitive with other male students). Could he think more highly of her because she is smarter?

3. Is there still a chance for me or am I too late? They both seem to be dating or at least very close

If you wife or long term girlfriend with whom you intend to build a life earned more than you, enough to provide for you and your hypothetical future kids, would you choose to work part time or none at all to look after the house and your family?

Did you see it happen around you? How likely is it to happen where you are currently living?

Please do share your thoughts.

(I'm living in Paris and I know 3 men in this situation. I've met some that wished that option was available so that they would have more time for themselves and their family. But given the size of the sample I wouldn't make statistics.)

What is the definition by the internet and today's society of a woman?

What makes me a girl? It's not biological, not society cause they can't choose who I am. It's not how I behave cause I can be a tom boy fixing cars and doing manly work.

Is it just how I dress on the internet? How ever social media sees me? Not in public! Irl

Just being feminine? Yet if there is no fixed definition for a women how do you be feminine if that itself can be anything?

According to most it is not biological or gender! It's not behavior cause I can act how I want and still be a girl.