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There's a girl I know who is very beautiful and does modeling work for magazines & online. When we were hanging out a while back she told me about how sometimes she goes on dinner dates with older men for money. I held back my opinions and decided to ask questions about it, she said it's non sexual and she meets up just for the dinner like a pretend girlfriend experience (she would use a sugar baby site & a fake name for that kind of stuff).

The logic doesn't really make any sense because I personally wouldn't spend 200 to 500 dollars just to go on a date with a very attractive woman with sex not being apart of the equation... She asked me if I'd ever date someone who does that and I didn't know how to respond because instinctually I wanted to say "no" but at the same time I'm very sexually attracted to her and didn't want to make her feel bad or ruin my chances.

Anyways this came to mind again because she recently told me about one of these dates she went on, the guy messaged her on IG saying he'd pay her $500 just to go out for dinner & drinks, she said he looked & sounded like Borat. We just kind of made fun of it while I did some shitty Borat impersonations but I felt confused about the whole situation and thought about that question she asked me a while back.

I know this sounds stupid and I probably shouldn't even care, but I kind of like her and she seems to kind of like me - so I figured I'd ask this question on here and forget about it lol

My girlfriend Lacey has this friend named Carlos who lives in California. Lacey always talks about her friend Carlos from the states how he’s super cool. She said he comes up once a year and they hang out with a group of friends.

The other day I was on Instagram and Carlos showed up in suggestions. I decided to check his account. Saw Lacey made a comment I didn’t like on a picture of Carlos and his friend. She these exact words…..”You two are the cutest!! 😍 Miss ya!”. When I saw this comment it really upset me. This makes think her and Carlos had sex in the past.

We’ve been together for 7 months. We’ve had arguments about her having more male friends than female friends. And how I don’t like it. Then Lacey she said she’ll distance herself from guys and mainly hang with girls from now on. So I don’t even know if this worth mentioning.

Am I overreacting or not?