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No penetration, but close cuddling, and playful touching, and kissing would be OK?
I could do that!! That's mostly what I love with any of the ladies I am with, anyway! We rarely have penetration sex, because so many other things are just much more fulfilling for us, together, and no chance of unwanted pregnancy!
For the right woman, I can see myself agreeing to this.
Maybe we can significantly shorten that 10 years if we talked about what was the issue (s) she’s facing.
There’s a lot to talk about, mainly, children since I would like to raise a family.
Biological children is not an absolute necessity though.
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u If a girl said she did not want to have sex until she was married, I would understand that. If she says no PIV sex for 10 years, that sounds like an arbitrary number and I would really need to hear a great explanation before I could accept it. And what if e got married after 2 years; do I still need to wait another 8 years?
I wouldn't mind dating a virgin (I would rather a virgin) but after we are married we must have sex starting from the wedding night. I am not waiting 10 years after marriage to have sex that's crazy.
Ten years is a long time; it's a little less than half of my current lifespan. Sex is important in a relationship. What if, after ten years, I found out she was in to pegging or some shit? That's a long time to wait just to discover you're sexually incompatible. I voted no.
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Vivant I voted that it depends on why and what other activities we could do. The why part would be really important because if the 2 people were in love that's a really long time to wait. If the reason was to be absolutely certain there would be no pregnancy one workaround would be to have intercrural (between the girl's thighs) sex while still using a condom to prevent any semen from getting even on the outside of the vulva. I don't mean to be overly graphic. But that kind of pseudo penetration would enable the 2 people to approximate the closeness of intercourse.
It would depend on the reason for the decision that. If it was because of some new fad that she read about probably not but that's just because I wouldn't be in to someone who makes decisions like that.
I would hope not but there's some crazy shit out there
I'm a virgin too so probably as long as other things clicked. Sex isn't that big of a deal for me, I care more about being close on a mental level.
She would have to be perfect in every other department and be OK with me getting it somewhere else in mean time.
If she just want it for attention or some other s**t test, what would stop me to leave you after having bedroom fun then?
And why you think it would be good idea?
I do not really believe that would be the only strange request from person like that.
This question does not involve getting sex on the side, tho personally I can understand people coming to that agreement it isn’t what I was thinking of here. In this case I think you’d have to say no.
It isn’t that I think it’s a good idea, it is just a question based on curiosity 😊
Then NO.
Not prepared to have a girlfriend and no sex for 10 years...
She could bail after 9,9 years too...
Yes, it is always friend or just curious... and everybody believes...
10 years? no thanks. I'm only allowed to date when I turn 21(strict indian parents lol) I have to wait 10 years to have sex with him? fuck no. I'll pass
I'm a practical man.
I'll consider to begin dating her towards the end of her 9th year of celibacy.
I respect her decisions or motivations. Which does not mean that I must apply them on myself.
Probably wouldn't date someone I can't have sex with, it's not all about sex but that is a big part of it
I would decide, for personal reasons, to absolutely not date that woman!! LOL I don't get along with women who are either afraid of sex, or feel they need to refrain from it.
Depends! I do want kids, so 10 years might be too long. I would be fine not having penetrative sex as long as she makes up for it with other acts, but I really want kids, which should probably happen within the next ~5 years.
Ten years out of my life? Nope. The best I can say is, we could still be friends.
I would , but with my chemistry and charisma it won't last for to long. And at that point I'm sure it would be worth the wait because the connection would be that more deep.
Ofc i do, the virgin girl is the best 😊
That's how it should be, staying virgin till marriage, i would have questions if she had sex before marriage!
Thanks skyscrapper girl but 1st i have to find her 🤣
Maybe mr mr is hiding her 😂😂
During a particular portion of my pre-marriage "dating" life, I deliberately remained penetrative-free, but continued to crave other types of sexual activity
It actually went pretty well. Considering a particular girl that I had that specific kind of relationship with, I now wonder what it would have been like if I WOULD have had "penetrative" sex with her. Another interesting thing was that she never made any comments to me about it, or vice/versa
I could live without penetration for ever as long as giving and receiving oral sex was allowed, especially if she was okay with swallowing so the feeling was very close to penetrative sex.
don't you penetrate her mouth during oral sex
@sponge-bob True. We would need to establish if penetration of any kind is prohibited or if just below the waist penetration is not allowed.
I agree that oral doesn't qualify as penetrative. To me oral is blowjobs and pussy eating.
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I think that would ruin any relationship because there is less intimacy. Most women would never wait that long.
Yes I agree but I said most women not all women. If 2 people don't have sex it's more like 2 buddies. But 2 people can agree on anything they want.
No, I went for a year but there is no way I could have gone ten!
Lol I can't even stay without sex for a day forget 10yrs.
Well I am 30 it's tricky , of I love them it's fine just don't expect to deal with kids at that age lol not that impractical out potency is high anyways lol 🤣 that's why we are second highest in population
Depends on why - if there is a physical problem, so be it. Psychiatric, I prefer not to deal with these problems unless I am working, so no.
No sex means no intimate affection and it would be more of a friends situation, not a loving couple situation.
No problem female over the age of 18 is any kind of virgin.
No female over the age of 18 is any kind of virgin.
No, you know several that say they are; you don't know any.
10 is arbitrary for such an important decision. Id assume they have serious mental issues.
Why would I want to do that? I date to find a romantic partner, and that includes sex.
I'd need to know why. Plus, ten years seems rather arbitrary.
As long as I get to eat her out regularly I don't care.
No, I wouldn't because I'm 38 and still a virgin and I think that would be unfair to me, Especially if she was able to get Sex more easily.
I would respect her wanting to keep her purity in tact.
Honestly, I do not value virginity. It is not an important issue to me and I just would not care about it not for a single second.
Yes as long as they were good at oral
Yeah I was specifically focusing on traditional P in V for a reason sorry for the mix up
And I totally think I could do it if he had a reasonable reason.. nothing crazy tho lol I could def wait with other stuff in place. To me the surrounding activities are the most important part anyhow.
Affection and making out/playing with each other are very important 😊
Yes, I would do so there is not a problem
@VIVANT I like the Bird and Strawberries yum <3 <3 thanks for sharing
It’s beautiful I’m learning how to drain ber bare now. It’s the nose part of the cere. She sticks her little face straight into the food and gets her nostrils clogged 😑 I have to clear them with a syringe
@VIVANT Aww that is sweet
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Hell no! Just be friends if there is no sex that what it is anyway
Hmmm...
... Yeah; I guess so. As long as I get blow jobs and get to play with her titties.
Seems kind of random, though. 10 years? I'd be curious to know why.
For the record, I want to specify that the sexual acts I described would only occur after the wedding.
Yeah, why not. I can wait until marriage if I have to
I am waiting until marriage. So I hope that she wasn't waiting for years after we are married.
Only fools date whores. The sages are with the virgins.
I have been with out sex for 27 years, so why not.
lol I'd be 42, no fucking thanks.
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Lmao
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You call them prudes
I call them majestic princesses
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Just depends on the woman man.
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That may be something you’re into in the beginning, but it does get monotonous after awhile.
Also, if that was the anchor of the relationship then it can possibly fallout rather quickly.
I want a woman that I can be intimate with, but also want one that has enough goals and interests so that we’re not having sex every second of everyday….
I have goals in my life that can keep me busy throughout the day.
Among other things, I want a woman that is caring, honest, moral, and reasonable.
Of course, these traits can manifest differently in every woman.
A prostitute can technically have these traits as well as a church woman.
It depends on the woman equally as much as the traits she has.
i won't as i like to bang more
I knew you were a virgin.
There’s nothing wrong with it
I can wait easily but I don't think the girl will wait if I arouse her everyday😂
I'm sorry girl but bird sex does not help at all...
No way. She could be a friend though.
I might if she was exceptional in other ways.
I wouldn't mind that.
I would prefer having sex but it is not a must have for me and I can satisfy myself.
For me, it is more like yes I like blue eyes but I wouldn't reject someone who I find nice just because she doesn't have blue eyes.
Yes, time to try it out.
Definitely.
I'd be a hypocrite if I didn't.
No. Ridiculous. She's must be crazy. 🙄
Sounds like a weird and religious reason, so no.
Yes.
Thanks for like!
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Hard pass.
If she has good boobs.. yes
Oh fuck no!
No thanks.
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