No penetration, but close cuddling, and playful touching, and kissing would be OK?
I could do that!! That's mostly what I love with any of the ladies I am with, anyway! We rarely have penetration sex, because so many other things are just much more fulfilling for us, together, and no chance of unwanted pregnancy!
For the right woman, I can see myself agreeing to this.
Maybe we can significantly shorten that 10 years if we talked about what was the issue (s) she’s facing.
There’s a lot to talk about, mainly, children since I would like to raise a family.
Biological children is not an absolute necessity though.
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u If a girl said she did not want to have sex until she was married, I would understand that. If she says no PIV sex for 10 years, that sounds like an arbitrary number and I would really need to hear a great explanation before I could accept it. And what if e got married after 2 years; do I still need to wait another 8 years?
I wouldn't mind dating a virgin (I would rather a virgin) but after we are married we must have sex starting from the wedding night. I am not waiting 10 years after marriage to have sex that's crazy.
Vivant I voted that it depends on why and what other activities we could do. The why part would be really important because if the 2 people were in love that's a really long time to wait. If the reason was to be absolutely certain there would be no pregnancy one workaround would be to have intercrural (between the girl's thighs) sex while still using a condom to prevent any semen from getting even on the outside of the vulva. I don't mean to be overly graphic. But that kind of pseudo penetration would enable the 2 people to approximate the closeness of intercourse.
Ten years is a long time; it's a little less than half of my current lifespan. Sex is important in a relationship. What if, after ten years, I found out she was in to pegging or some shit? That's a long time to wait just to discover you're sexually incompatible. I voted no.
It would depend on the reason for the decision that. If it was because of some new fad that she read about probably not but that's just because I wouldn't be in to someone who makes decisions like that.
I'm a virgin too so probably as long as other things clicked. Sex isn't that big of a deal for me, I care more about being close on a mental level.
She would have to be perfect in every other department and be OK with me getting it somewhere else in mean time.
If she just want it for attention or some other s**t test, what would stop me to leave you after having bedroom fun then?
And why you think it would be good idea?
I do not really believe that would be the only strange request from person like that.
10 years? no thanks. I'm only allowed to date when I turn 21(strict indian parents lol) I have to wait 10 years to have sex with him? fuck no. I'll pass
I'm a practical man.
I'll consider to begin dating her towards the end of her 9th year of celibacy.
I respect her decisions or motivations. Which does not mean that I must apply them on myself.
Probably wouldn't date someone I can't have sex with, it's not all about sex but that is a big part of it
Depends! I do want kids, so 10 years might be too long. I would be fine not having penetrative sex as long as she makes up for it with other acts, but I really want kids, which should probably happen within the next ~5 years.
Ten years out of my life? Nope. The best I can say is, we could still be friends.
I would , but with my chemistry and charisma it won't last for to long. And at that point I'm sure it would be worth the wait because the connection would be that more deep.
Ofc i do, the virgin girl is the best 😊
That's how it should be, staying virgin till marriage, i would have questions if she had sex before marriage!
I would decide, for personal reasons, to absolutely not date that woman!! LOL I don't get along with women who are either afraid of sex, or feel they need to refrain from it.
During a particular portion of my pre-marriage "dating" life, I deliberately remained penetrative-free, but continued to crave other types of sexual activity
I could live without penetration for ever as long as giving and receiving oral sex was allowed, especially if she was okay with swallowing so the feeling was very close to penetrative sex.
I think that would ruin any relationship because there is less intimacy. Most women would never wait that long.
No, I went for a year but there is no way I could have gone ten!
Lol I can't even stay without sex for a day forget 10yrs.
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