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This is from a terrifying case i read about in which a guy probably 17-18 years old groped and bullied a girl of the same age and the girl kicked him in his testicles so hard that he lost both his testicles (removed by surgery due to rupture) and also had to go through a urethral repairation surgery (8-12 hr long major surgery) to fix his broken penis. Now i feel very bad for that boy because even though what he did was very wrong but he certainly did not deserve that...
He can not have kids, Having no testicles will finish his sex life and problems like no body strength, male breast, no more masulanity and taking pills of testosterone for the rest of his life along with so many problems
Treatments and life long medicines + the surgery are aslo a lot of money he and his family has to pay now.
Where as the girl would walk away with nothing but just appreciated for her brave action.
But as i dived deeper into the case i also came across the fact that the girl knew karv maga (a form of martial arts) and could have used many other methods to run away.
As the definition of self defence is " to use the bare minimum amount of force required to run away from attacker and not harm the attacker more than he/she intended to hurt you"
Infact using exxesive force in self defence is a punishable crime.
Now i dont know what happened later on to that boy and the girl and i am very curious.
That is why i am asking you guys. What according to you should happen to them if you were in power
Ps. I really hope that the girl gets sued or at least is made to pay for his hospital bills.

Is this a new trend that started in the last decade or so, am I wrong for thinking this or am I self projecting?

I just find it funny because a lot of people I've known with low self esteem have had shades of narcissism and a strange inferiority/superiority complex. Are they delusional and this is just how they cope by bouncing between two extremes?

I feel like I'm no exception to this, because I find myself on this pendulum swing between these two extremes at times depending on the situation and circumstances, but I'm able to dismantle this nonsense by objectively analyzing the situations.

I notice this a lot when it comes to dating where people who lack quality options (or any options at all) thinking they deserve some sort of perfect being, or those who demand loyalty and respect but simultaneously lack morals & ethics. I find it so hilariously asinine.

Some examples - undesirable/incel type of men demanding some sort of make believe traditional virgin woman/wife BUT they lack masculinity or desirable traits (like personality, strength, athleticism, overall attractiveness, and competency, etc.. )

And overly sexual & aggressive women who lack morals & ethics and anything else desirable/respectable from a partner, and they do shady hoe shit demanding men who look like professional athletes with CEO incomes.

I just find the lack of awareness funny & kind of sad, I don't know what could be done to find a balance (at least not in a generic advice sort of way because a lot of these problem require immense effort & soul searching that pertains to that particular individual even if the problems are fairly common & shared)