Search Results: how do i start to trust more females

Ok... So... Lets start here... My boyfriend and I have non stop been going at it over this.

I am a bisexual female that has always had more male friends than female... Always was permiscuis when i was younger, but remember bisexual...

He is totally freaking out stating that my friends calling or texting in the middle of the night is disrespectful to our relationship but can't give me a good reason... Other than it is disrespectful. So... I asked him these three questions and his only answer is... Because its disrespectful... Can any one answer this for me and make me understand why and also why would it be ok for a girl and not a guy if that's the case...

If my friend calls me because they are bored, at 1 am and I am still awake doing nothing but scrolling fb... What is the harm in talking to them?

Same scene except my boyfriend and I are watching a movie... If I know my boundaries and say something... Hey I'll hit you up tomorrow me and my man are watching a movie.. Where is the disrespect...

Same scene except this time they say... Hey baby girl what you doing I miss you... blah blah... And I tell them look... You don't need to be calling me any more I gotta a man... Where is the disrespect...

Is it a trust issue or possibly a control thing or is he correct?

Before I start: I'm probably one of the most introverted, reserved and antisocial people you'll ever meet. My boyfriend is really social and extroverted. Almost all my friends are online and I met them through gaming. Most of my friends are guys (he has a lot of female friends as well).

I don't exactly know how to place this. I've noticed my boyfriend likes to check who I'm texting and what's the text about. Sometimes one of my friends will ask me how my boyfriend is or to say hi and when I ask/tell him, he'll reply with: "yeah I read it already".

I don't have anything to hide from him, but I've never ever read the messages he received from people. I know a lot of people will be like "are you hiding something because you don't want to let him read the messages?"
But it feels more like he doesn't trust me / doesn't even know me? While I've never done anything?

The second thing is that I feel he's kind of jealous / insecure about me having a lot of followers on Twitter? Not necessarily that but the fact random people send me messages. A couple of weeks ago he asked me if I didn't find it weird that strange people send me messages and before he went to sleep he told me to not text strange guys while I've never started texting random guys.
Note: I use Twitter anonymously, there are no pictures of me/thirst traps, my followers know I have a boyfriend and I mention him often, and I don't reply to guys who try to flirt.

Maybe he's just curious but it kind of stings? I don't know yet how to start talking about it cause it might seem like I'm hiding something from him