He's only telling you what he is about and who he sexually, and what you yourself got caught up with sexually because you're having premarital sex inside of marriage. He's using you for sex you're using him for sex, he's telling you to get there to have anything by manipulating and using people because men is go to manipulate and use you. Here's the thing. That's only if you allow that person to do so, and sadly you already got yourself caught up with one that's why he's now your ex boyfriend and you're still sleeping with him. He's only telling you the reality of this world, and what you had got yourself caught up with. If you would have saved yourself, you probably would have spared yourself a lot of Heartache have you kept your virginity. So he's telling you the harsh consequences not only of having premarital sex, but every choice you make when you get a new partner. And even if you get legally married, there's no guarantee. That's all he's basically saying. What is also trying to say is that he's not a good man. He knows he's not a good man. He knows he's using you for sex, he knows you're trying to love him beyond that, but he can give you that because that's not in him to do right now. What he don't realize and what you don't realize is that technically you're already married the moment you had sex. When the penis enters the vagina you create a covenant, blood is spilled which is why when the hymen get stretch some blood gets on his penis and on the sheets. That's how serious it is.
So he's in a says giving you a warning oh, he's making it out like he's doing you a favor, but he ain't doing him self or you any favors by not being broken up and you already been sexually involved and you're still sexual with this man and you're not in no legal let alone stable commitment and you're putting yourself at risk not only for diseases but God forbid getting pregnant. And there are other things you got to think one now. So at this point you got to think now about your choices for the future. Are you going to continue to be sexually active outside of marriage, or you're actually going to change from it. Or whether or not you're going to have sex ever again. know if you want to be involved with another man again let alone with marriage. This is why he's telling you this. Like I said he thinks he's doing you a big favor but he's not. Because if he can't be there, if he can't be right for you, then why is he having sex with you and why is he using you? With the question you got to really ask yourself why are you allowing him to do this to you and you think your loving him and you don't understand what you doing. So before you ask about that question about with him warning you about men. You got to look deep inside yourself understand why you're doing this for yourself and why you do the things you're doing. Because if you don't understand yourself, if you don't understand your desires, why you had those desires coming while you're doing what you doing, that's how all the men can take advantage of you. That is what he's pretty much saying. But it all rests on you now and your future choices impacts your entire future. By you not being a virgin now, but you making this conscious choices, is a lot you now got sort through. Because the biggest thing you have to concern about is children being born and there's already generational curses that has to get settled because of the sexual connections you made with that person.
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He knows you can be easily manipulated. And he know how men can be because he is one. Sounds like a guilty conscience to me.
You just have to be careful who you are with, be more picky.
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Have you met men? We're (mostly) dogs with the IQ of pigs. lol
That’s weird
He sounds annoying
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