Search Results: losing a friendship

I can't stop thinking about someone I was in love with 15 years ago (and haven't spoken to in 10 years) - what do I do?

So... I was 16 at the time, and I had a huge crush on my best friend. By the end of our friendship (when I was 21, nearly 10 years ago) I was completely in love with him. When we were 16 years old, he confessed that he...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Flirting

I'm scared of asking her out on a date but at the same time scared of losing her friendship?

I don't know what I feel exactly but I do know I want to get to know her more This girl, she is 30 I am 31, from work asked me out for drinks and we had the best night ever, her words, there was some flirtation and eye...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Break Up & Divorce

Delayed Vengence. Guys, Why do you think he changed his mind?

I did something awful. I was in a dying relationship (no sex, no cuddling just living together) and I started seeing someone new before ending my relationship. I was with the new guy 8 months or so and he said he loved me...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Why is my husband's friend (ex friend) upset with me?

3 days ago during a family reunion, he started acting flirtious and weird with me when my husband wasn't around. Then he wanted to talk to me in private. He asked me if I wanted to go to the movies with him on a weekend...

JaneDee5

Xper 4 Age: 42

Break Up & Divorce

I think my girlfriend is better as a friend after we took a break, how I can tell her?

Long story short I was in a bad place and doing bad things to myself and others, so she wanted to take a break. We took this break and in the last months I worked on myself to manage my anger, be more mindful and patient...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Girl's Behavior

Girls, Why does she ask how I am doing -- but if I ask her; doesn't reciprocate this answer, doesn't respond... or asks me another question entirely?

I have been messaging this friend for quite some time. (who is a girl). Our status -- we have only ever been friends; never discussed, hinted at, moved towards, or even "entertained" the idea of a relationship. Our...

Anonymous

(30-35)

What should I do?

So I had plans with friends to go out except they forgot to tell me they cancelled. Which lead to me going to the bar and then texting them only to come to realize I was the only person not informed. I've never been stood...

Anonymous

(25-29)

What can you suggest and advise here?

Im best friends with this guy, and we developed a close bond. One day I asked did you ever expect us to be best friends. And his response was yeah kinda (he’s shy so I had to ask why). His response goes “because you...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Am I overreacting?

My best friend and I have been best friends since middle school. Recently he has been treating me differently. We go to each other for advice, and we simply help each other out, but as of lately he hasn’t been there for...

prettylovelylady

Xper 3 Age: 33

Why are some friendships so difficult?

My best friend from school is a guy, we have been through so much together and it has never been this confusing. Since we have both become single things have gotten a little complicated, we have been a little naughty via...

Anonymous

(30-35)

I can’t stop thinking about a missed opportunity with someone 15 years ago?

I was 16 at the time, and I had a huge crush on my best friend. By the end of our friendship (when I was 21, nearly 10 years ago) I was completely in love with him. When we were 16 years old, he confessed that he had...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Have you lost friendships to politics? What happened?

Not talking about losing distant friends or acquaintances; more concerned with friends you were considerably close to.

Passing_by

Xper 6 Age: 25

My boyfriend doesn't spend much time with me, his friend does?

I became friends with his friends not a long time after he became friends with him. If I'm being honest, my boyfriend isn't really treating me right. I always carry tissues with me because he makes me cry. He doesn't give...

Anonymous

(25-29)

I feel like he is being hot and cold, what should I do?

I have known this guy since we were kids and we have never gotten together, only ever been friends. Recently, for the first time in years, I went to visit him. There is a unique chemistry that we seem to have where we...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Is 5 years later too late to clear someone's name?

Someone got framed for stealing and something else, got suspended and nearly expelled. We were in 7th grade at the time. However, once in a while (seldomly) a couple classmates still talk about it. I thought they had...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Someone got framed for stealing and something else, got suspended and nearly expelled. We were in 7th grade at the time. However, once in a while (seldomly) a couple classmates still

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I think I like my friend?

I would hang out with the same two guys every weekend primarily cause I had a thing for guy A (it was essentially a relationship without the title) and guy B is his friend. We made a really good group and I developed a...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Was this a friendship worth losing? Would this be considered a one sided friendship? How much time should I give them before I reach out?

Sorry, this is long. Recently, I had a person I considered a good friend ask for a break from our friendship for a bit. I’m not really sure what I did besides ask to hang out, I wasn’t nice about it tbh bc every time...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Is it ok to still feel trashy at times?

I'm already 25 years old but once in a while, I think about it. I was 13/14 at the time. She is my long-term friend but still, I can't believe that was me back then. My story as a former mean girl: I've judged her...

Anonymous

(25-29)