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He said let’s do a happy hour can you leave work early and I said absolutely! Around 4pm im packing up my things and he calls to ask if it is ok if he goes to meet up with a female coworker who wants to celebrate him for just a drink and then he’ll meet me at 5:30pm for our happy hour.

My disappointment comes from constantly communicating I always feel last to him and that he only makes me a priority when convenient. He goes to drinks with this coworker about once a week and though I’m not concerned about anything between them I don’t like feeling like im last in who he wants to share with. I later found out he had reached out to her to meet up sounded like she said something around lunch and then he followed up.

He ended up showing up 45 minutes late and then got upset when I responded to a message from my boss. He said it was disrespectful to do so in front of him especially being my boss is a man. I just said sorry and moved on.

It really bothers me that I try to tell him how I feel and it’s usually met with defensive responses and then he immediately gets upset with me when it comes to someone of the opposite sex.

Am I overreacting?

Between the years 2013- 2018 the Sisterhood stood strong, we tackled and almost defeated Men as a whole. We stood in unity and backed each other up. Even when we knew our fellow sustas were wrong we stood by them... Fast forward to 2024!

The Sisterhood lead to The Hefor she Male tears, me too, and many more.. (Utopian Bullshit)

"Hey girls! Let's get real for a sec... Why do we still claim to be all about sisterhood when, honestly, we often can't seem to get along? We're constantly comparing and competing with each other, and then suddenly, when the guys come into the picture, we're like, 'Sisterhood united!' But are we really?
Can we truly say we support and uplift each other, or are we just putting on a united front to face the world? Let's have a real conversation about this. Are we genuinely standing together, or is it just a facade?"
Or, if you'd like a version with an even more playful and sassy tone:
"Girlies, let's spill the tea! We preach sisterhood, but do we really practice it? We're always throwing shade, competing for attention, and trying to one-up each other. But the minute the guys come for us, we're suddenly BFFs, right?
So, what's the real deal? Are we genuinely about that sisterhood life, or just playing the game? Let's dish, ladies!"