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I had the ability to have lucid dreams- the kind where you can control your own actions, interact with other people and your surroundings, and get the same levels of sensory feedback as you would in the real world. Effectively, when I had lucid dreams, the experience could be compared to VR, or being plugged into The Matrix. And when I woke up, I could go back to sleep the next night and resume an unfinished lucid dream from the exact point where I'd left it. I had numerous lucid dreams, but by far the most important set of lucid dreams I've ever had were those which I experienced when I went through puberty. All of the wetdreams I ever had were lucid dreams, and they all revolved around my interactions with the same girl- who bore no real resemblance to anyone I'd ever met or heard about IRL, but who I 'd have a monogamous relationship with for almost 2 years.
Most of the dreams featuring her weren't wetdreams though. Most of the time, we'd just talk, laugh, hold hands, kiss and cuddle. And even argue- there was one time when we had a proper falling out, and she refused to even talk to me in the lucid dreams for a full week, before reluctantly accepting my apologies; it took us a whole month to patch things up enough to resume lovemaking again. She was very much her own person- 21-23yrs old, but definitely younger than me. And the lucid dream sex was inexplicably realistic, so much that it was my original sex-ed. I only found out about female sexual anatomy and erogenous zones by experimenting with her in the dreams, and it all turned out to be real. I didn't know that the hymen even existed until I broke hers attempting our first time, and we ended up aborting it. My ability to lucid dream faded, and I can't do it like I could any more- she hasn't materialized for over a decade. But I never stopped fantasizing about her or loving her.
I need to know though- if you were my girlfriend, and I were to tell you all of this, how would you feel? How would you react?

"Men constantly have to be on. Not only were my initial messages to girls necessarily concise and witty with a healthy dose of denigration, but every succeeding message has to be interesting even if – as in most cases – the girl gives u a minimal level of conversational material to work with. It also has to be sensitive to her mood and the changing tone and course of the interaction. As my friend put it, the messaging process goes something like:

Probe –> Response –> Calibrate –> Flirt –> Calibrate –> Exchange numbers

The hardest part is constantly having to be interesting else u fuck it up.

Observation:
1) Women are fickle. Even if a sequence of messages seems to be going really well, a woman will arbitrarily change her mind at any given point if u did not re-calibrate effectively, or her competing options are disqualifying you as a sexual candidate. This trait in particular made me really sympathetic to the hoops men have to jump through when acquiring a girl’s attention, even though most women have nothing to offer.

2) Women are boring and have very high estimations of themselves The difference is the self-evaluation. Most men undervalue themselves online and most women overvalue themselves. I understand this is a natural consequence of the sexual marketplace, but after you read the literally hundredth, carefully worded profile of a girl touting her intellectual strengths and esoteric pop culture references, it gets EXCRUCIATINGLY boring. The annoying part is that she thinks she’s being really unique.

I can see how having to be in this frame of mind makes men cynical. I’ve heard men previously remark that they use male friends for intellectual stimulation and women for emotional companionship + sex. A high investment/low return interaction does make you perceive women as a monolithic category that don’t deserve much sincerity. I understand that is self-defeating to admit as a woman, but my male persona can’t help but experience it."