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There’s a girl that I like and tried moving on from twice on a couple of dating apps and in person with other girls, and she knows that. I’ve never felt this way before about anyone, until now. Some of my friends told me that I can do better, but I truly like her and don’t care about anyone’s opinion. Although, she’s 19 years old and I’m 28 years old. I drew a flower for her awhile back and I’m going to make a glitter pumpkin for her tomorrow and give it to her on Monday, when I see her. I care about her and want what’s best for her in life. I’m always asking her how she’s doing, always showing my concern for her about getting the coronavirus and always helping her out in general. She’s special to me. Just curious, if girls can end up liking guys they previously didn't? She’s only 19 years old and still has a lot to sort out in life, so maybe things can change and we can be more, than friends. She’s currently not looking for anything right now, which I’m respecting.

My younger sister was on the high school wrestling team last season (and will wrestle again next season), and has usually had to face guys instead of other girls. My sister said that there are some tactics she uses to try to distract a male opponent.

For one example, she said she pulls her singlet up above her thighs. Other things involve the way she will try to get her opponent to look at her between rounds and 'incidental' contact during the match.

My question is simple. Is it bad sportsmanship to try to use such tactics against an opponent? Or is this a normal way of trying to get in your opponent's head?

My sister claims that if he respects her as an opponent, he won't even notice.

And if so, why? Like how many of you guys out there feel that sleeping around is dishonorable? Or getting hammered every weekend is straight up childish behavior? I see too many women getting hammered and having WAAAAAY more sex than the men they try to criticize. And there are a lot of women out there that are pro choice which shows they aren't willing to accept the consequences of sleeping around. Ladies DO NOT get this twisted I am not saying ALL WOMEN nor am I saying that there aren't deadbeat men. But what I am saying is that I feel men have to held to a different standard in society to be seen as noble. I've upheld my integrity and treated classless women the way I was raised to. But they don't respect it, they laugh or ignore me.

Note these women are NOT the women I would even dream of touching. But all through my life I've seen far, far more women acting like debased animals and children then men. I've hung around a lot of men that carried themselves with integrity. But the majority of women I met were the exact opposite and many would say they don't even care about honor, chivalry and all that. But then complain when a player uses them like a piece of garbage. Why do women demand respect when they don't show they can even respect themselves, their communities, their families, their neighbors? Saying Hi/Bye to people isn't being respectful by the way. Your actions are what prove your worth.

Last side note: I am NOT saying men are not without their faults, they have plenty. But the low class trash women are the ones speaking for women these days and ladies aren't putting them in check. There's a reason why so many men have lost respect for women. Ladies, please restore face because you ARE better than this and you know it's true. Lots of you out there with good hearts and good intentions, put those things into action and be an example to the young girls out there who lacked good role models. I DO NOT hate women, I want better for all!

I’m concerned and worried that the girl I’m interested in might get the coronavirus and end up in the hospital on a ventilator. I truly don’t want that for her. She pretty much doesn’t wear her mask at all. I understand that some people aren’t ready or willing to get vaccinated. I have no problem with that. Everyone has their opinion and I respect hers, but I’m just concerned because I care about her. Should I let her know my concern for her and let her know that I care? I’m not sure, if a girl would like to know how much a guy cares for them, especially in these hard times.