Can girls end up liking guys they previously didn't?

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There’s a girl that I like and tried moving on from twice on a couple of dating apps and in person with other girls, and she knows that. I’ve never felt this way before about anyone, until now. Some of my friends told me that I can do better, but I truly like her and don’t care about anyone’s opinion. Although, she’s 19 years old and I’m 28 years old. I drew a flower for her awhile back and I’m going to make a glitter pumpkin for her tomorrow and give it to her on Monday, when I see her. I care about her and want what’s best for her in life. I’m always asking her how she’s doing, always showing my concern for her about getting the coronavirus and always helping her out in general. She’s special to me. Just curious, if girls can end up liking guys they previously didn't? She’s only 19 years old and still has a lot to sort out in life, so maybe things can change and we can be more, than friends. She’s currently not looking for anything right now, which I’m respecting.

Wester1967 · Accepted Answer

You mean all those cute girls who treated me like absolute bottom of the shoe crap in my earliest years, humiliating me, forcing me to the friend zone, chasing anybody but me because I was so gross and repulsive 🤮? The same ones who married guys who turned out to be witless slugs? The same ones who are now showing up in my DMs saying “hey big head” and other ridiculous and pathetic pick up lines? Those chicks who now amazingly finally find me kinda attractive enough now to cheat on their husbands and BFs with? Them? Yeah. They change. Hahahahahajahaha

JBlade · Accepted Answer

I mean it’s not impossible but the majority of people will tell you it’s a waste of time because they typically don’t. I can tell you’ve got it bad and I was like that when I was younger and naive. You’re spending a lot of energy and time on one person hoping they change their mind 🤡. Keep it moving dude, if she comes around cool but I’d keep searching for someone else.

sweetmessposts · Accepted Answer

Very possible in 99.9% situations. I never saw my boyfriend in any romantic way before 💀Lol but I did like him as a person and also looked up to him in some ways. He is 26 and I don't think most girls or at least my friends would care as long as you are not younger than her or freaking uncle-aged. I think it's best just to be honest about your intentions and let her know you like her, and offer to take her out sometime. That's just my opinion.

EvilAngel114 · Accepted Answer

Yes it’s possible. There’s a guy that I known for 16 years. I was never attracted to him (not because he’s not a good looking guy), never liked him in that way. Not really sure what it was. One day may many years later I realized I liked him. 🤷🏽‍♀️ it’s not impossible but definitely don’t sit around and wait for a girl either.

ChrisMaster69 · Answer

Yeah it happens for both.

often it’s when you see someone in a different context, in one they come over as someone you don’t like, then context changes and you see more of who they are.

I dated a girl who originally was very much against me, told me she could not stand me, roll on a year and we were dating.

janbie_15 · Answer

Yes, the guy I’m currently seeing, I met him as a friend first 6 years ago and didn’t have any interest in him.
After getting to know him and his personality, I’ve developed strong feelings for him but this only happened the last few years and then the last few ml end we got together.

Alyssa11 · Answer

Yes it’s happened to me most of my life. I hardly ever like guys from the get go. Something happens and this guy I once thought I could ever like is suddenly my new obsession lol.

CasstheLass · Answer

They can sometimes but usually not. Everybody can change over time though so it’s not impossible

Vikkrram · Answer

I have been like same situation and i thaught the same way... now i have backed all my activities that i used to impress her. Now i have cutted myself from her coz i think i was makin uncomfortable to her and she doesn't likes my vibes as well. She hates me. And i respect her for that. I think you should also do that.

pickedcrisps · Answer

I always admire that line. That sort of last line. Not looking right now or at the moment not. Funny that.

I've used it myself at times too. But you know... but inside.. anyhow that's another can of worms.

Back to you however.. uhh... I voted Yes. And sometimes it's for a lot of reasons. Maybe they actually wore nicer clothes or had some quality or quirk that gave them a new light 🥳 a new attraction. Hell even a nicer pair of glasses 🤓🥸

front2back · Answer

Yes and no. Obviously if you're giving off creeper vibes it won't but one of the girls I dated said she saw me less than even an acquaintance at first but within a few weeks of getting to know me she really wanted to go out on a date.

Too bad she moved a couple towns over after admitting that. ಥ‿ಥ

madgoat · Answer

Yes, they can. Especially as she's so young. Too young. Let her grow and find someone closer to your own age. She has a lot of discovery to do before she can get serious.

Anonymous · Answer

Yes. But her expectations of him will be UNBELIEVABLY HIGH. I've been that girl multiple times. I wasn't initially interested in a guy, but he keeps trying, and eventually, I'm just like ok... let's do this. But, my expectations of them were higher than when I dated guys that I was initially interested in.

exitseven · Answer

When I first met my wife she did not want anything to do with me. After a while she sort of warmed up to me.

LinaDaGoddess · Answer

Yes that’s possible because she can possibly see something that she missed before and start to like you.

ItsMeElliana · Answer

I just once didn't like a guy and had no interest in him until we started talking and actually got to know each other and found so much in common and found each other interesting, sooooo yeah...

rpkearnsy · Answer

Dude. Glitter pumpkin? Where the heck did you come up with this idea? Girls say they want a sensitive guy but they instinctively want a masculine guy too. Christmas card, great idea... Glitter pumpkin... A little overboard. Plus, she's not even 21 yet.. I hate to say, most people, guys and girls, go through a major change during 21-25 age range.

Not to mention, you already tried to move on twice? My motto, "they are your ex for a reason"...

cth96190 · Answer

Only after they hit the Wall. Then they go looking for the good men, who she Friend Zoned while she was sport fucking Chad and Tyrone.

midnightmoon05 · Answer

Most likely no. If she said she is not… move on. Stop being her girlfriend.

t-8900 · Answer

This happened in reverse to me with 3 different girls. I started liking them a few years down the road wh n I didn't previously.

rcljr · Answer

Sure they can, they can hate a guy with every fiber of their being, but the millisecond he wins $ millions in the lottery they’ll be all over him.

Avicenna · Answer

It’s possible, but rare

ThrowAwayx404 · Answer

Generally no. Girls/women are pretty harsh and once they’ve decided you’re not worthy, you basically don’t exist to her.

Anonymous · Answer

Not really. That is to say if a woman rejected you would you give a second chance? Nothing has changed orher than her view. If she didn't value you before she doesn't value you now. She's just more desperate.

Pumpkinspice009 · Answer

Yes, this has happened several times to me, but it’s not always the case

Neilbud · Answer

Investing in the time to get to know someone can greatly change how you feel about them. Sometimes even change the way they look to you.

TheFlak38 · Answer

yes once they've hit the wall. It's alpha fucks beta bucks all the time.

Anonymous · Answer

Especially if they find out the wallet or the jeans are full

Anonymous · Answer

From the girls opinions, it sounds like there's still hope?

Anonymous · Answer

Yes they can

MCheetah · Answer

It's possible. Unlikely, though. But possible.

In_Trance · Answer

Probably not

FatherJack · Answer

99& of the time , no.

Anonymous · Answer

Sometimes a guy or girl can grow on a person

InferiorElegy · Answer

They can if that guy ends up with a lot of money.

Anonymous · Answer

It’s really rare but yea sure.

Relux47 · Answer

Nope

Nazgol · Answer

Of course

Shihab91 · Answer

sounds desperate

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