Is it ever possible for a girl to, over time, start liking a guy she once rejected?

[NarutoFoxNinja]

Yes.

No.

[jennifer_bloom]

It depends whether she rejected you because she didn’t like you or whether she rejected you for other reasons (I. e. busy, lifestyle incompatibility, low ambition, immature, not seeing your good qualities, dating other guys when you asked her out, lives too far away etc…)

[litty]

Well it depends, what about him caused her to reject him in the first place?

No money, no muscles, no car, etc? Though superficial, these things can be achieved over time and cause her to like him again.

The other thing is if she grows up and material items aren't her only criteria and focuses more on the good aspects of a guy, then she could bring herself to like him.

But if the guy caused her to feel humiliated, or crossed her, lost her trust, or doesn't have any morals, or made her feel uncomfortable. That's it, there's no more chances.

[OlderAndWiser]

Is it possible? Yes. It is also possible for Martians to land in my back yard tonight, but I am not waiting up to give them milk and cookies when they arrive.

Possible is not the right question to ask.

Is it likely? It is very unlikely. How much of your life do you want to waste waiting for a girl who has already had her chance and politely said "no thanks!"?

[user1516]

No. No means no. If she doesn’t like you she won’t change her mind. Meaning she’s definitely not the one for you and the best thing to do is move on because I can guarantee you that there will be a woman out there that’s waiting for you. So don’t waste your time on just 1.

[Anonymous]

But sometimes I think it's meant to be that way. You know as arrogant and disappointing as this will sound, I really do speak from first hand seeing with my own two eyes and even reading with my own two eyes of how: forcing something never works.

Besides, sometimes I think the word soulmates is actually a secret Easter egg or hidden give-away by the universe or god to imply: enjoy this life, because you'll meet a better copy of her (or him) in the next life.

So eat and be merry hahahaha 😏😏😏😎

[MariZra]

I can say YES. Of course depends what's reason for her to reject you.
In my case I was in a relationship when someone asked me out. I was not able to look any other guy. I was in love already. I have told my sis I would never date guy like him 🤔 I didn't like him even. NEVER SAY NEVER! After I broke up with my boyfriend and some time after same guy asked me out again. I accepted this time. We are engaged now and planning to get married by next year 🥰😊

[Rohan-Thanekar]

Wow 🔥... Congratulations

[MariZra]

Thank you 😊

[JenniferStar]

Congratulations, I hope things are always good for you.

[MariZra]

Thank you so much darling 🙏

[JenniferStar]

@MariZra your welcome

[MariZra]

🥰😊

[t-8900]

Yes and the reverse is true too. Happened to me on two occasions. Girls that others found attractive right off the bat i didn't simply because I have a unique taste in women. Once I got to know them as people they became extremely attractive. I was able to realize why some girls do end up going for not so attractive guys. Personality is such a huge deal and if you want someone next to you on your death bed then that personality needs to be the key to who you end up with.

[Rohan-Thanekar]

Yes it can happen.. but also it will be a foolish of a man to wait for someone who rejected him. If it meant to happen, then it will definitely in future. But what if it's not happening? No point in thinking much.. isn't it? Just go with the flow... Instead talk to other girls out there. Who knows may be something spicy & loving can happen 😊.

[K-I-S-S]

Increase your value and she will definitely look at you differently.

Talking to her won't help.

Focus on yourself, forget her and enjoy the fruits of your labor. I personally don't give people second chances like that, when she seems interested later, i personally think neither should anybody.

Start fresh with somebody awesome.

[IncognitoBandito]

If they hang out long enough and have some good conversations he might slowly win her over

[NarutoFoxNinja]

I feel a lot better knowing this, thanks for the advice!

[JenniferStar]

I think it can happen. I've gotten the wrong idea about a guy the first time I saw him, and said no when he first asked me out. After I saw I was wrong we did end up dating for a while.

[padreflint]

Yes it is possible. The main thing is she rejected you for a reason, don't keep after her. If situations change she MAY become interested. The ball is in her court, whether she decides to play it IS HER DECISION. For the meantime take the no as an answer and move on.

[Abcdef2001]

I rejected my ex 4 times before we started dating! He didn't seem like my type. Then we reconnected and dated for a little bit!

[Grubhub]

Damn he had heart and was strong. I wanna ask a girl out 4 times

[Abcdef2001]

@Grubhub he knew what he wanted for sure! Ultimately it didn't didn't out but I did like him after I gave him a chance

[Grubhub]

You must be fine I actually would keep trying if the woman was that fine

[Abcdef2001]

@Grubhub not sure I would describe myself that way 🤣 I am a virgin and I think that's what he was most attracted to. I wouldn't recommend asking a girl out 4 times 🤣99%of the time the answer won't change

[NarutoFoxNinja]

So, you’re saying most girls won’t change their minds and start liking a guy they once rejected? I feel like every girl is different. Honestly, it’s hard to say.

[pleasestopthis]

It can happen, yes, but I would NEVER advise you to stay beside a girl who rejected with the hope she could change her mind. Move on and let things run its course.

[Wester1967]

Do not get your hopes up. It just means that Chad stopped taking her calls. It means she’s settling for you and she’ll always subconsciously hold you in a little bit of contempt for putting up with her BS

[Anonymous]

Don't be fooled that it will ever happen to you. yes it happens but not so often that you should count on it. She will respect you more if you cut her completely out of your life and fuck some of here friends. It might sound like I am kidding/joking , but I assure you that I am not. Women want guys that they can't have and they dont want the ones they can. That is why I shit all over them and they keep coming back for more.

[Assi2k]

Yeah if he stops chasing her and takes her off the uncomfortable pedestal

[CallmeTheKnight]

You'll just be wasting your time and energy by waiting. If you're desirable, let another lucky woman come into the picture.
Besides, people have their reasons for rejecting you and believe me, being rejected is a good thing.

[Alexandrubaschet08]

Sorry bro, Sakura is a bitch she already marry and make a child whit Sasuke afther evrething you done for her. Now she is fucking and sucking Sasuke evry time she want.

[Browneye57]

No. Not ever happening. EVER.
If a girl never had the vag-tingles for a guy, or lost them, she's NEVER going to get them again. That's just not how their brain works.

[Brittanyroseee]

If im not interested from the beginning why would i be interested later on?

[serious]

It is a saying that possibilities are endless and so the answer is yes. It is possible.

[BCA6010]

It *can* happen, but it's a fringe minority of the time, so I wouldn't ever bank on it.

[drakethibault1]

Stop daydreaming. If she liked at first place she wouldn't reject you at first place.

[DarkWinterNights]

Possible sure, but not very likely. If she rejects you it just wasn’t meant to be- just move on.

[MountAverage]

I assume "ever" is meant hyperbolically here. Anyway, the answer is: It's rare enough so that it would make no sense to count on it.

[exitseven]

I do not think it will ever happen. It sucks but is is what it is.,

[red324]

Well most women ghost you to never be heard from again, so the chances of her all of a sudden changing her mind aren't very likely.

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

Yeah, it's called after Chad plowed through her a million times. Now it's the Beta's turn to marry her who she see as her clean up man.

[Deserter]

Yes, especially if he changes a lot both physically, mentally, and where he is at in life. Just don't hold your breathe

[beefy40]

grow a backbone, if she rejected you the first time, she doesn't think your physically attractive enough. she ended up just ditching you later on.

[Anonymous]

Contemplate this:

https://www.youtube.com/embed/KX5jNnDMfxA

[Anonymous]

Most definitely! But that guy 1. Needs to move on so she can. 2. That guy must NEVER give her a second chance.

[KrakenAttackin]

Yes, once she has banged a few Chads and now needs a Beta to pay for her mistakes.

[ChrisMaster69]

Yes but it depends on the reason she rejected him.

[The_Naughty_Guy]

Yes it’s possible

[NarutoFoxNinja]

Very good to know, thanks!

[demonics]

*Kevin Samuels presses the "hey big head!" button*

[pink_and_inlove]

I think so look at Jim and Pam from the office lol

[ChiPaPa]

Yeah. I wouldn't bother, though.

[ThatNoUVAtYourEyes]

It is, but why would you bother if it isn't love?

[Shihab91]

Sounds very desperate... Move on

[BigKevHanma]

It’s called becoming rich

[Jmmmfi4]

No... tell her to eat shit & die slow

[Slim57]

Yeah but usually I've already moved on

[Youdumbeotch]

You need to move on,

[BogeyMulligan]

Maybe