Was this girl interested or I was just completely wrong about signals?

[Trent30]

I am a shy guy and today I decided to asked a shy girl at work straight out if she had feelings for me. She said no. I noticed that her eyes where glowing and cheeks were red with a smile in her face. I will take her words for it and act normal when I see her but I was 100 percent sured that she liked me before the rejection as before I decided to asked her she showed signs such as staring me for a long time, locking eyes, always looking back in my direction, hiding her face, pretending to be on the phone, being clumsy and having a soft voice that you could barely hear. I was surprise about her answer but in someway I feel relief that I did asked her and respect her choice.

[Anonymous]

Lol I love the fact that you didn't beat around the bush. You flat out leveled with her.
Women are never going to give you a straight answer my friend but if she did have an interest in you she's kicking herself. Just live your life now man. If she has interestbin you she got some work ahead of her. If she isn't then you c worry anyhow.
I will say this though. If you e b d up dating another girl. Make sure she sees you together. That way you twist the knife on her.

[Trent30]

Yeah, I like to be as straightforward as I can, don’t like to play games, and you if I get rejected every time so be it.

[Opinion Owner]

Yeah well that's an admirable quality. But just know no woman is ever going to answer that question honestly.

[ThrowAwayx404]

This is so toxic my guy. She doesn’t like you. Just accept it.

[GoldenCage]

You might read that wrong. You just described awkward shy girl and not flirtatious behavior from her side. Anyway, next time don't walk to someone and ask if they are attracted to you like that. Ask them to join you during your lunch break or over coffee first. be settle about it. Sometimes coming too strong or too fast might cause the rejection. Always date first.

[jennifer_bloom]

Attraction is different from interest and sometimes a girl likes you but is not ready to date you. Another thing is, girls can feel shy when romantically approached, even if they are not interested in a relationship.

[Avicenna]

Hard to tell from that

[Anonymous]

Seems like she does like you but is in denial

[Opinion Owner]

Or just embarrassed

[Opinion Owner]

More like shy lol

[Trent30]

Yeah I think the same thing. I will just be my self when I see her and act normally. I do like her, but won’t make a move on her anymore, if she is interested she will have to be the one that have to make the move.

[Opinion Owner]

Why do you not want to make a move?

[Trent30]

Two things: I took her words as face value and we work at the same place and in case she not interested I don’t want to deal with harassment.

[In_Trance]

you were wrong