I thought she wasn’t into me. But is she sending me signals?

[Anonymous]

A month or so ago I pretty much said to myself that she’s only being friendly and unless she makes any move nothing will happen between us. So I decided I will mentally move

Went to a work party few weeks ago. She came up to me during it, I got nervous cause wasn’t expecting. But kept my cool. I forgot what happened after but our hands or arms touched by accident. She then asked me if I’m trying to hold her hand. I said no (cause I wasn’t). But damn, maybe she wanted me too?

Had another party yesterday. I arrived didn’t enter the building and stayed outside for a bit hanging out with other people at my job. She came outside and was like ___, you didn’t even come say hi to me! I didn’t even enter the building yet so I couldn’t say hi. But like I was thinking ok maybe she does like me? Did she come outside just to say that?

But no flirting or anything after that from her. So again I felt like mixed messages per usual. And left feeling like an idiot again.

does it sound like she’s into me?

[Oliverlogan263]

Dude it really does sound like she's into you. A few reasons:

- She went out of her way both times at the parties to come find you and say hi. Girls don't usually do that if they're not interested.

- When your hands touched she brought it up and jokingly asked if you were holding her hand! No way she was just being friendly there.

- Coming to find you outside when you didn't come in right away is a dead giveaway man. She wanted to see you.

- I know she didn't flirt more after, but working with someone makes things complicated. She's probably just keeping it casual there.

I'd say there's a good chance she likes you bro! Next time you see her, try standing a little closer when you talk or casually brushing against her, see how she reacts. If she's into it you're golden. Just gotta make a move! Don't let her slip away, you got this!