Search Results: getting a guy to talk to me

How to open up EVEN more?

Why do guys keep telling me to open up and withhold stuff because of it? I know I’m open. I express interest in the relationship, I accept the empty promises and even allowed myself to be disappointed and disrespected one...

Diya1014

Xper 5 Age: 26

Family & Friends

Do I have a right to be angry at my dad?

So I think my a guy I used to talk to is angry at me because he found out I said he was as attractive as a chimpanzee and he's been getting girls to spam call my house cause they called once and asked did Xiao live in...

jennifer_bloom

Master Age: 41

Why does he think it’s a joke?

My ex was the dumper (34) from a 4 year relationship about 2 weeks now. I didn’t want to break up but I wasn’t going to force him to stay and so our breakup was sad but very respectful and he asked if we could be...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Flirting

I can’t get a read on his behavior?

My coworker is one of the only men. I notice he’ll give compliments He does have a girlfriend and he’s 30. I’m 21 and once he told me he was happy to see me. Once I was calling a guy and he interrupted me to tell me how...

Helloeriss01

Xper 7 Age: 25

Does he seem intersted in me?

I been following this guy from a different state on instagram for like 3 years now. He's replied to a couple of my stories a few times but we never had a long conversation. A couple months ago I seen him on this dating...

Anonymous

(25-29)

I love my boyfriend, but he doesn’t know how to be sexy or romantic. He’s a great guy, but he’s a bit childish in this area. How do I tell him?

My boyfriend is great in so many ways. And I don’t want to be with anyone else, and hope to even marry him (we’ve been together 2 years.) I’m 37, he’s 35, but he’s still really childish around sex and romance. For...

Anonymous

(36-45)

How to respond when it feels like he’s not putting an effort?

Have been having a casual relationship with this guy for 6 months. Recently got in a weird spot where I felt he was using me so we texted about it and said we would talk in person. He asked to hang last night but I said I...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Is he going to eventually come onto me sexually?

My coworker is one of the only men. I notice he’ll compliment people. He does have a girlfriend and he’s 30. I’m 21 and once he told me he was happy to see me. Once I was calling a guy and he interrupted me to tell me...

Helloeriss01

Xper 7 Age: 25

Old flame and I went out for dinner, texted on and off and then he drunk texted me about hooking up. Is he looking for a fling or connection?

Long story - enough detail to get an actual answer because I am perplexed! I (F28) dated this guy (M31) for 6 months last year and I thought he was great. We weren't in a relationship, but neither him nor I was seeing...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Does this guy really like me? (Sorry it’s long. please READ)?

People I need help, I like this guy and I don’t know if he likes me back. We have gotten together a couple times and we seemed to doing great. We talked a lot and held my hand (interlocked like you see couples hold hands...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Am I allowed to break no contact when I was the one who asked for it in the first place?

Me and this guy were friends for quite a while and we ended up getting really close with each other but as time progressed we both found int that we had really strong feelings for each other but he couldn't commit. I was...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Should I break the no-contact that I initiated, and how do I make it clear I just want him as a friend?

there was this guy that I became friends with and we ended up becoming really close. I ended up gathering feelings for him but didn't want to do anything about them since I wanted to keep him as a friends and wasn't...

Anonymous

(25-29)

He barely talks to me anymore and also avoids talking about/expressing himself now. Any advice?

He told me he likes me and I actually liked him too. So we started getting to know each other, we communicated almost every day for weeks we weren't yet solid, but things were going well. Now he barely communicates, (I...

Anonymous

(25-29)

What does it mean when an old fling contacts half a year later?

(Background information: I am 28 and the guy is 29) I met a guy back in January of this year and we clicked instantly. Our chemistry was incredible and we did manage to go on a couple dates but unfortunately, he had...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Flirting

I’m starting to like him a lot when I know that I shouldn’t?

My coworker is one of the only men who work at our job. I notice he’ll compliment people. He does have a girlfriend and he’s 30. I’m 21 and once he told me he was happy to see me but I shrugged it off. Once I was...

Helloeriss01

Xper 7 Age: 25

I need girls opinion about special someone in your life?

Hi, so I have this special girl in my life and we're both special to each other, my question is, if I'm special to her, would you ever ignore me? Even if you're busy with work and not social media all the time? Because...

Jakoesu

Xper 4 Age: 29

“A very angry woman is a woman who feels ignored.. if you want her to not be angry give her lots of attention” Have you seen this as dating advice?

I was looking up suggestions on how to resolve conflict i wasn’t gendering the question just looking in general. Good to know women are so one dimensional that makes life very simple ig 🫠 it was all “guys if you think...

VIVANT

Guru Age: 28

I was looking up suggestions on how to resolve conflict i wasn’t gendering the question just looking in general. Good to know women are so one dimensional that makes life very simple

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Why are things extremely awkward around us?

My coworker is one of the only men who work at our job. I notice he’ll compliment women which is fine. He does have a girlfriend and he’s 30. I’m 21 and on one of our first interactions he told me he was happy to see...

Helloeriss01

Xper 7 Age: 25