Does this guy really like me? (Sorry it’s long. please READ)?

[Anonymous]

People I need help, I like this guy and I don’t know if he likes me back. We have gotten together a couple times and we seemed to doing great. We talked a lot and held my hand (interlocked like you see couples hold hands while they are walking) before he left to go home for like 5 sec. Then I went to one basketball game he is an Assistant coach on and after that we took a selfie. After I was about ready to go home, I was walking down a hallway and he was walking in the opposite direction. He put his hand on my shoulder to address me and said bye to me and I left. We met a couple more times but then I saw him today. He was so different, he was quiet, he wasn’t himself. His sister, my sister and I were at a place having fun and he pulls up. I said hi to him and he ignored me, I thought that maybe he didn’t hear me so I walked away with his sister. Later his sister Is getting picked up and he’s in the car, he gets out and walks around. I go over and say hi to him again and he turns around, looks me up and down then turns backs around. ( when he looked me up and down it wasn’t In a mean way, it was more like a casual look). He didn’t say anything to me. I was talking to my sister about it later that night and she was like he was talking to me and asked if she wanted to get a sundae from the place where we were at. I’m just really confused because this is not like him. Do you think he likes me?

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+1 y

I’m really confused about this. I haven’t been around him for about a month and then he changed all of a sudden. And no he’s definitely not into my sister the age gap is way to big.

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+1 y

Another thing is that I don’t know if he’s doing the thing where boys will purposely ignore you if they like you whatsoever

[Alli39]

I mean, casual physical contact can be a sign of romantic affection, but that depends on the person. Same deal with hanging out one on one. Based on this it's really hard to say without knowing him, especially with him ignoring you right now. Not sure what's up there, but I don't really want to commit to saying that he definitely likes you. It's a possibility, but he's acting pretty weirdly right now if that's the case (then again, who actually understands teenage boys?)

[Erroin]

Sometimes you have to make it obvious for us. I’d say there’s a 80% chance he is into you. But something has upset him. He may feel like his energy isn’t being matched or possibly he thinks you’re leading him on. My advise to you is to straight up ask him what’s going on. Tell him you thought he liked you and ask if there’s something that upset him. If he denies it, ask again. Sometimes that can be to see how badly you want to know. And then just listen. But that behavior is not that of someone that had no feelings for you. My money is something is there but he’s upset about something. Something happened. Only one way to find out. Good luck

[Soldieronmission]

That's a tough. Not sure why he's ignoring you now, that seems unusual. What's the age gap between you 2?

[Asker]

1year and 6 months on the dot

[Soldieronmission]

Nice.. so he he's totally ignored you three last few times ya? You really think that's normal?

[Asker]

I don’t know. From September till now I’ve only met up with him 5 or 6 times. I haven’t said anything the bother him- he also lives 45 mins away from me. I don’t have his phone number because he lost his phone and I haven’t been able to contact him.

[Asker]

He just got a new one today

[Soldieronmission]

Hmm that is a little sketch her asked about your sis. How old is she? Dm if you care to.

[Asker]

12yr old

[Soldieronmission]

Uhh that's scary..

[Asker]

He also has a young sister around my sisters age and they have play dates a lot. I just dot know if he Is purposely ignoring me or what

[Soldieronmission]

It does seem like he is. Were you dressed cute when he stared you up and down?

[Asker]

No just a plan shirt, Jean shorts and crocs.

[Soldieronmission]

So any idea when you'll see him again?

[Asker]

End of August is my best bet

[WhitneySnow]

I think he does like you. He did hold your hand.

[barn_stormer]

sounds like he used to but now likes your sister