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The story is quite big but I'll try my best to sum it up in just a few lines. Hope you guys can understand.
So there's this woman (let's name her Lilly) who is actually my next door neighbor. She's actually 7 years older than me, lol and she also got a brother who's the same age as me. So talking about Lilly. She's a beautiful woman with a killer smile and a fantastic personality. But like everyone else, she also got her own demons and fair share of past traumas. Even though she struggles with anxiety, adhd and other issues, she's the most resilient and determined woman I've ever seen. A true fighter! She's ambitious, driven and passionate about her work and... Yea... I could actually go on and on but... let's just get to the story.
So around this time last year, we started talking through insta. I mean... I always saw as a sister only tbh. So whenever I'd find some funny reels, I'd send it to her along with my own sister who is actually 10 years older than and also a really good friend of Lilly. Time passed by... sending reels and good night messages kinda became a tradition between us. We bonded really quickly and like she'd say... We vibed! I told myself that I think I got a best friend with whom I can share anything. And she also shared some of her biggest secrets with me too. I was slowly falling for her without even realizing that myself cos in my head I've always limited our relationship to just "friends". Long story short, we both fell in love with each other. We did go through an on and off phase in between cos we didn't want anyone to know about us especially our family members cos we come from different religious and cultural backgrounds plus, the age gap. I know it's 21st century and we should have an open mind and all but we r just afraid of losing our loved ones. So we mutually decided to end it cos it was hurting both of us and now after she's gone, there's not a single day I don't miss her and cry. And it's slowly killing me from inside. I can't...

So a girl from an online group started flirting and talking VERY sexual stuff with me intensely for (probably) no real reason about almost 5 months ago, and when I tried to warn her with a friend for a really toxic dude one month ago she instead got curious about him and is probably now talking to him almost every day and most likely doesn't believe me anymore. I think this because she kinda mocked me and my friend when I warned her a second time.

I contacted with her two times after that but it was rather not so deep and smooth as how it used to be. She replied in two minutes the first time and wasn't mean per se, just a bit vague and provocative. Apart from this, she used to say she even wanted to meet my parents and have my surname in 5 years, and talked about our family of millions of children about which I joked first.

All my friends are saying she's an attention-whore who never cared and just uses me and other men for her own self-esteem. Some said I could try to ask her to figure out about her true intentions from the beginning. Others said to just ignore her and maybe delete her everywhere.

What do you guys think? I'd appreciate your advises.

By the way: I used to have a crush on her but now I just distrust her. I'm about to end this shit in my head very soon. My choice would be either option 1 or 2, but I'm still thinking about it.

I can give you more details about the story if you want.

Obsessive Partner: This is the man or woman who is so crazy in the head for you, they literally will make you, your family, and family completely paranoid. This person might go through your stuff without your permission, they might spy on you especially if you want some alone time or don't think about talking to a family member or a friend of the opposite sex because the stalker girl or guy you are dating will become so creepy desperate enough to please you they not only will willing to put their own health or safety on the line but they might keep you lock up in the house because in their eyes anyone can steal you from them, hell they might even play some horror creepy music. Basically with this man or woman your life might essentially get involved with them and only them because you are the only person in their mind 24/7, good luck having precious me time because with this husband or wife you definitely need it

Toxic Partner: Are you the sort of person who hate drama, violence and restrictions if yes than trust me run the fuck away from the toxic wife and toxic husband. This is the person who will filled your life with so much choas and petty drama, your partner might try to control your body, living arrangements and essentially your entire life. If you men and women out there think the obsession partner is the jealous, trust me at least the obsessive partner might not constantly snoop through your phone if they instantly suspect you are cheating on them or your toxic lover might always interrogate you if you want to leave out of the house. And you toxic lover might physically, emotionally or mentally abused you too so there that.

Now men and women out of these two picks which one would make you more afraid to be with?