over a year ago I (30) met a guy (35) at an event, I instantly noticed him and after a couple of drinks called him over (I rejected one guy before this and to this day he still joking mentions ‘Mr Thedora’ as he calls him- jealousy? Anyway, talked all night & ended up spending the night. He stayed with me until the morning and while I really liked him, I didn’t expect to see the guy again. Anyway, he messaged first just a few hours after & found my Insta. a year later & we talk it never goes more than a few days & have seen each other again several times.
When we’re together it’s boyfriend & girlfriend vibes, we’re extremely intimate, he will stroke my hair in the car at red lights, hold my thigh, just this weekend we took a shower together where he tied my hair up& proceeded to gently wash me head to toe, I’ve never done that before & it felt so affectionate/intimate. The passion is crazy, and when he leaves we both comment how we wish it was longer together “he wishes he didn’t have to go” and our time alone is so good. We banter, I get at him & we have that couple debate thing with a light hearted-ness, his commented how he doesn’t like how one of my friends treats me, which tells me he cares for my best interest?
-problem is, he works six day long hours, and has his daughter the weekends his off work. So we only catch up if we’re in the same place or his visits me and his said I should go stay with him when we can. I tell him if I’m going to an event & he will turn up, which he says keeps me on my toes in an endearing way, but I think he wants to see how I am when his ‘not around’ I always see his eyes on me. We kiss in public, even when his working and he doesn’t hide it, even to his friends. He doesn’t entertain other women when I’m present & tells them his with someone. He notices my image such as new hair or perfume and says things like you had that on the first time we met, His said if We was closer we would be together everyday as we live in different city
