Search Results: thinking about other guys

Does he think I'm moving for him?

So I was seeing this guy last fall that lives about 1.5 hours away from me. About a month in he said he wasn't sure if he could handle long distance and a month after that he said he for sure couldn't handle it. When we...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Girl's Behavior

How to know if a girl is interested in me? And how to stop obsessing over her?

I met this girl on Taimi and we've been messaging everyday for maybe 5 days. Now I can't stop thinking about her. We text good morning, throughout the day, and then good night. I'm noticing she's saying "hahahahaha" and...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Flirting

How can I start getting more physical while flirting?

I'm a college guy and I've been talking to this girl recently. We go to parties together and every time we always hug goodbye before we she goes back to her room (I walk her back as far as I can). While we're there, we...

the_man57

Xper 5 Age: 24

How do I get over fear of rejection?

I am originally from East Asia and I came to England to study. I had no problem attracting people before I came to England but things have been very difficult for me in England. I’ve been trying so hard to make friends...

Anonymous

(25-29)

My sister is intentionally sabotaging my new relationship, should I just end it?

So I (24 F) have been seeing this guy (23 M) , let’s call him Matt, for about a 2 months. we met because he’s one of my sisters (27 F) coworkers/close friends, he showed interest and ask if she’d be ok with it and she...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Break Up & Divorce

Was engaged to a narcissist, need advice now I'm gone?

Hi guys I was with my ex for 3 years. The first year was perfect, when I got pregnant he gradually changed. He constantly accused me of cheating, I couldn't speak to any guys on social media, having to delete it in the...

BluEyes7

Xper 1 Age: 40

Does the stuff my guy friend says to me sounds like he loves me?

I know basically everything about this man. We’ve known one another for five years. We’ve had some fights where I’ve wanted to stop talking and he will always ask me to reconsider. These are some of the things he’s said...

Anonymous

(36-45)

The issue is NOT boys vs girls. Real solutions must address the real problem: so let's address it.

I've read up a good bit on this site having never been a member myself - I have heard the countless woes of girls talking about the horrible guys they have had to deal with, and I have heard the countless stories of guys...

SimonClass

Xper 2 Age: 28

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Why does he ignore me?

So I met up with a guy for a casual thing. It was a little awkward the first meeting in terms for intimacy. I did nothing to offend him and he ignored me for a month. So I forgot about him thinking I upset him. Then the...

Sarah2023

Xper 4 Age: 29

Flirting

How can I tell my brother’s friend I like him?

I need serious advice please. We’re both adults, I’m 31 and he is 28. He’s my brother’s good friend. As of late I’ve been hanging out with my brother & the friend & I’ve caught feelings. I‘ve met him a bunch of times...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Why am I always friend zoned by guys? All men that I met were never attracted to me and always put boundaries?

I am in my mid twenties, a little shy at first but when I get used to someone I am friendly and talks about many topics. But I never get compliments on my looks although I gave to others a lot of compliments. I try my...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Why is he acting different towards me now?

I have this shy guy friend. Nowadays we live far away due to studies. We text occationally and he has said that he misses me, that we should hang out more and once he sent a . Those are very rare things coming from him....

Anonymous

(30-35)

I have feelings for a man I work with. What should I do?

I’ll try to keep this short. I have worked at my office for 5 years. Been there since I was 25 and I’m 31 now. When I started my manager was the guy in question who is 18 years older than me. I got a promotion a few years...

Anonymous

(30-35)

I'm in a long distance relationship, but his girlfriend text me?

I have been seeing this guy on and off for about 2 years now. We always get hung up on the 5 hour distance between us, but recently things have been going well. He came down to visit last week and as far as I could tell,...

Anonymous

(25-29)

What is a special relationship?

SPECIAL RELATIONSHIPS What purely comes into your mind when you hear"I have a special relationship with him or her. "Relationships are one of the aspects of life that tell who we are. The kind of people we associate with...

linka_pat307

Explorer Age: 21

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Girl's Behavior

Do men find women more desirable if they are desired by other men?

The reason I’ve been thinking about this topic is that, I just posted a video from a party I was with my female friends, in that video I am chatting with three handsome men, funny thing was - one is white, I am standing...

LaFemmeFatale_1

Guru Age: 29

Do I have feelings for him? why am I having so much trouble getting over him?

So a while ago there was this guy I matched with on tinder. He was attractive enough for me to swipe right on, but I still wasn’t 100% attracted. I sometimes just swipe right on guys even if I don’t find them 100%...

nocturnalbaby

Xper 5 Age: 28

The continuing weird discussion about masculinity. . .

Years ago, when I first joined GaG, I wanted to talk about relationships. I had hopes this was a place where I could find meaningful discussions on the issues men and women have with forming meaningful bonds. I was and...

RolandCuthbert

Editor Age: 54

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