I am in my mid twenties, a little shy at first but when I get used to someone I am friendly and talks about many topics. But I never get compliments on my looks although I gave to others a lot of compliments. I try my best to be presentable and I put makeup. but for some reasons it’s always my friend or the other girl I am with, gets more attention. I feel like I blend with the background.
i never had a boyfriend, I get sad thinking how no one likes me!
I read through and the first sentence tells me a lot. You say that you are "a little shy at first". Maybe you think you are a little shy but to others VERY shy. The way you perceive yourself versus how others perceive you could be very different.
Being shy or coming off that way is going to limit who wants to approach you. Even if they do, they might feel like they are getting nowhere. I doubt very much that after only 5 minutes the shyness goes away. I bet it takes time for you to open up. There is nothing wrong with that.
My suggestion would be to be proactive about meeting better matches. You can do that by looking in your local area and seeing what clubs and activity groups are out there that you might have an interest in.
Join one and meet new people. The good news is that you already share a common interest with people in one of these groups or clubs. It is much easier to connect with others when you have something to talk about. It may just make it just a bit easier on you to open up.
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Some people do have it easier and makes you wonder why does the same thing not happen to me and it’s fine.
Maybe theyre good at maintaining a conversation, they sound laid-back, or they’re so engaging?
Sorry to hear about your relationship difficulties. We all have them but yours sounds extreme. Not even I get Friendzone every time. What’s going on?
So you're shy, you never make effort with guys yet you EXPECT them to make effort with you. Gee, I can't imagine why you're single.😆😆😆
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May be you think yourself a Beauty Queen, and proud
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Not sure why is it your personality
Do you ever ask why guys do that?
shocking for a woman to be single this long
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