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Hi all,

We went to a ball over Christmas it went well, she wanted to take some photos with me no matter what with the professional camera, and then put the casual ones we took together on her Whats App story, I'm friends with her friends cause she introduced me to them

She invited me out to places such as her church; I'm not that religious myself, but I went there to spend some time with her. Her walking me back to the station and us having 1 and 1 time with each other occasionally. She even offered to buy the ticket for me several times

Had a call with a girl that I've been taking to (we have been texting everyday, not all day). She wanted to call me, the conversation was about 40 mins, this happened 2 times. Wanted to know more about me but I'm a terrible judge of knowing if she is just being friendly or if she is interested romantically

Right now we are texting and I told her a situation that I'm in thats personal and she said that "whatever situation your in, I'm all ears" she has been replying slowly the past 2 days (under a day), but yesterday she sent me 24 separate messages.

people are like girls are always are on thier phones but she responds on the group chat to people but replies to me later.

I asked her out on a date over phone and she said she was thinking of bowling but she used the famous "I'll let you know" so that's out me on edge, she is also doing masters right now which might take her time. Any thoughts?

I want to get feedback on my partner:

- She’s not keen on me seeing friends, for my safety and would rather I met them with her. She also uses the find my iPhone feature with me.
- She messages me and phones various times per day, and gets frustrated if I don’t reply quickly, she says it’s to check I’m ok,
- She tracks my spending on her, to check we’re in budget. Even if I a buy a coffee she’s brings it up and asks why I bought it.
- She’s says if I don’t spend $$ on her birthday present I don’t love her. Also said her birthday needs to be “perfect” with hundreds of balloons etc and fancy cake.
- She doesn’t like me having a female friend at work, has told me to stop going to lunch with her. Said it’s to ensure I don’t “cheat”. She messaged my friend at work on Facebook to ask about me.
- My partner doesn’t like me following other girls on social media even friends.
- She told me I can’t have anyone better than her.

Is she a good partner? I’m really conflicted as this is my first relationship. My female friend said there is red flags everywhere, is she right?