Guys, Why are some of my guy friends saying they don’t like my weight loss?

[Anonymous]

Guys I’ve known since college said I looked better before I got thinner and toned. I wasn’t fat or skinny but I was thick and a had a little belly and my face looked chubby. I didn’t like it so I changed it. I like having a toned belly.
My ex boyfriend in college dumped me for a skinnier girl and one of my guy friends said he’s crazy and I am a beautiful woman and I look good the way I am.

Whats wrong with fitness and being toned.

This is an example of what my body uses to look like:

And this is what my body looks now:

Look both bodies are beautiful but I prefer to be what I am now and it’s that example you of the second photo. I still have a shape.
My best guy friend said why are woman so obsessed with losing weight? Unless you’re obese, if you’re at a healthy weight STOP TRYING TO LOSE WEIGHT! Women look sexier with weight on them. Don’t suck up into the “you need to be skinny” trap. Embrace your curves.” He thinks I should gain it back. No thanks!
I went from 126 to 98lbs. I’m 5’1”. What? I didn’t like my weight back then.

[Mangospacho]

Some guys do like girls who have more weight and curves and some women do look better with a little bit of weight on them. They think they’re complementing you by saying that you looked fine before you had lost the weight but it is not a compliment at all. They should be congratulating you on the weight loss instead.

[MrZameer]

Tbh I would prefer you now, you have a very sexy and hot body now.
You are simply amazing now.
If I have to choose one, then I will choose you now for sure.

[Asker]

Thank you so much. Most guys prefer me before I lose weight

[MrZameer]

But I would love to be with you now after losing weight

[MrZameer]

can you follow me please dear

[Asker]

Excuse me?

[MrZameer]

Oops, sorry
Is following someone bad

[Asker]

No you said you would be in love with me just because I lost weight? You would date me if I still looked like the first photo!

[MrZameer]

loving someone isn't because of body,
I mean if a guy loves a skinny girl, but then she put on some weight, then it doesn't mean guy won't love her anymore,
as love isn't related to body, love is love,

[MrZameer]

but yeah, I like skinny girls for sure. But I won't l leave the girl just cuz she put on some weight,

[MrZameer]

as for me in relationships, most important thing is behaviour, personality,
so if she looks like first photo, but she has a good personality, and her behaviour with me is fine, then I'm happy with first girl for sure.

[MrZameer]

but I would want her to look like second photo (you now)

[andreasderjuengere]

Why they say it? ... Because now they not longer deserve you :D

Go ahead - you look right.

[DryGermanGuy]

Jealousy maybe or being taken aback by your motivation to change.

[beefcakebradybatson]

Some boys (not this ol' boy) like thick chicks.

[Asker]

There’s nothing wrong with that

[beefcakebradybatson]

Thanks. Fat broads aren't my cup of tea or coffee.

[Anonymous]

Different guys like different things.

[zombiewoof]

Looks great

[Asker]

Which one?

[zombiewoof]

Second one

[Asker]

Oh thank you

[zombiewoof]

Very welcome, i like the pic

[zombiewoof]

I appreciate a nice body